Hello, Horny Readers! Obviously, plenty of “regular guys” call Us just to be guided in stroking their cocks. They simply want to hear a woman’s voice murmuring sweet nothings and telling them just how to do so, and I enjoy these guided masturbation sessions. The ones I most look forward to repeating, however, give Me the sense I could parlay them into something more. Lucky for Me, this is a frequent evolution.

Guided Masturbation still involves acknowledging My position, and doing what you’re told.

I’m more of a sensual Domme during a guided masturbation session, but a Domme just the same. I try to make that clear, preferably in a friendly manner. I draw a subtle but indelible line between a GFE call, where the two of U/s are on equal footing, or where maybe even switching is a possibility, and what I’m offering. Some boys need the distinction.

For example, I make clear that although I know that humiliation of any kind isn’t their thing, I still expect to be addressed respectfully. I don’t want to be talked to as if I were some tot they met on Tinder. I also confirm that they actually intend to follow directions.

These seem like fair ground rules to impose, even if a man doesn’t consider himself submissive. All he’s looking for is to maximize his pleasure after all, and being polite doesn’t threaten that, right?

Well, don’t put a halo over My head just yet.

Guided Masturbation leaves you open to suggestion.

If maximum pleasure is the goal, I clearly have tricks up My sleeve to make that possible. These tricks perform double duty, however, because along with the enhanced pleasure they bring, they deepen My control . . . and perhaps, with a little luck and a little finesse, his dependence on it.

Take edging, for example. Sure, orgasm delay through edging ultimately produces a much bigger, stronger climax, but it also accustoms the susceptible guided masturbation toy to put not just how he strokes, but when he cums, in My control.

Since most men are naturally sexually greedy, if he thinks one or two edges produce a harder orgasm than he’s ever experienced before, what will 5 or 6 edges do? What will happen if he edges and then delays orgasm until the next day? What about a week?

Of course, he’s going to need someone’s support in reaching each new goal. *smile*

Guided Masturbation can lead to anal exploration!

“Did you know that you have a g-spot up your ass?”

I can’t tell you how many times I’ve uttered that phrase to a guided masturbation pet. You might be surprised at the number of times the answer is “no”.

Men are socialized to avoid their asses sexually. Maybe not to the degree they were a generation ago, but many men still feel leary about “breaching the threshold”.

Some resistance is intractable. I don’t push if someone who has come to Me to spice up his jackoff sessions is like this. Hunters are sometimes rewarded by patience, but others accept the fact that their desired prey is simply not in a position to be harvested.

That said, it’s no manipulation to encourage a man to stick a finger (at first) inside. It’s completely true that prostate stimulation in conjunction with masturbation has produced some of the biggest orgasms many of My submissives (both in the flesh and on the phone) have ever experienced in their lives. It’s a favor I’m doing them, really, to suggest it.

If you’ve never even thought about prostate masturbation before, you’ll need some guidance on just how to do it, won’t you? For a few, this becomes a bit of an obsession, and soon a finger just won’t do it anymore.

Miss Rachel understands.

Guided Masturbation opens the door to Femdom.

I just do My level best to push you through it, and to follow you.

One of the first posts I ever published here discussed what sensual domination means to Me. Even though the post was published in 2010, the vampire analogy I used in it has resonated with several playmates since then, enough so that it’s mentioned to Me a few times a year.

In short, a vampire can’t come into your home unless invited. Once in, however, a mere mortal is powerless against their supernatural charm.

Granted, those who “invite Me in” through guided masturbation don’t know that they’re inviting in a succubus. I guess I’m giving them the opportunity, through this post, to see Me coming.

But for some, it’s already too late.

 

xoxo

Miss Rachel, your guided masturbation Mistress

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