Hello, Horny Readers! For many, this is a weekend for solemn reflection. I thought it would be a good time to reflect on an oft-asked question, albeit not necessarily solemnly: What is “intelligent femdom phone sex”?

By the time W/e are introduced, most boys know what “femdom” means. Everyone is familiar with phone sex. But why do W/e here at LDW describe what We offer as intelligent femdom phone sex?

Have you tried out other phone sex services? Don’t worry, I won’t be jealous. I will say though that if they’re anything like I imagine, you are just as likely to talk to someone who thinks all she needs to do is pretend to masturbate and make exaggerated moaning and groaning noises, a la your standard porn movie, as you are to someone you feel is really engaging you.

Maybe that’s all some of you need. I try to avoid kink shaming, so I don’t mean to sound as if I judge that. Further, I’m sure many of you have had wonderful experiences with others. I think, though, that We are a breed apart just the same.

Not just intelligent femdom phone sex, but intelligent kink community.

Miss Ally takes pains to engage the best. Those whose repertoire is limited to canned sex sounds just wouldn’t make it. But even off the phone, I love that there are so many ways for a submissive to get to know each Mistress and Her kinks, as well as to be known, both to Her and the wider community.

There’s Teasemania and Getgirlie, there’s EnchantrixEmpire.com, and there are all the wonderful shows on Cock Radio. Those come with the opportunity to chat on Community Kink while listening, as well as the occasional live chat hosted by a Mistress at other times. There are Our personal blogs, like this one, and the group blogs to which We are all invited to submit.

There are free audios to be found on Teasemania and Getgirlie, the opportunity to have one custom made just for you, and a store where you can purchase others inspired by what ever is on your Mistress’ kinky mind. Further, almost all of Us are accessible via E-mail, Skype chat, Discord, and/or other social media.

All of this amounts to a few things:

• The desire to connect with you as a whole person, rather than just as a wallet and a hard on
• The willingness to maintain that connection between sessions, and
• Access to those with whom you are sharing some of your most intimate moments.

Granted, not every Mistress is going to be open to constant connection, and with everything else We offer along with creative, engaged, and fucking sexy live sessions catering to almost every safe, sane, and consensual fantasy you can conjure, I’m sure you can understand that there simply isn’t always time. Further, not every Mistress is going to connect with every submissive, and vice versa. But the fact that We offer you so many opportunities to find just the right experience for you only contributes, in My opinion, to what sets Us apart.

Miss Rachel, what does this have to do with “intelligence”?

I think there’s more to intelligence than the size of your vocabulary, or the creativity of your imagination, though those two components are helpful. Intelligence is also social, emotional and intuitive. It involves an open mind, compassion, and passion as much as IQ.  Sincerity, honesty, and generosity are important, as are respect and authentic engagement. It also requires a filthy mind and a healthy libido.

Okay, maybe not that last one.

All of the above, I try to bring to My interactions with those who bring their kinks and desires to Me. I’m not saying I’m always successful, because I’m human after all, and though a member of Exalted Womanhood, I’m not perfect. But every failure is an opportunity to learn, and to do better.

You know why?

Because I really enjoy it. And I hope to enjoy you.

As I said at the beginning, not everyone needs what I describe as intelligent femdom phone sex. Some boys want it quick and dirty, to get on, get off, and hang up. And yes, We have Ladies who can and will accommodate those tastes. We even have Ladies who will take on the submissive role in your fantasy (not Me.  *giggle*). But even that, I wager, is done with a character that makes Us special, and I hope you agree!

Side note: Need a little help finding the right Mistress for you? Check out Our reviews, and leave one if you’ve had a session you particularly liked, OR one that left something to be desired.

Also, many of Us offer pre-call questionnaires on Our blogs. There’s also a more general one offered here, and last but never least is Our amazing Cock Concierge staff who know most of Us probably better than We know Ourselves in terms of what makes the right fit. Please feel free to avail yourself of all of these!

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xoxo

Goddess Rachel, Intelligent and Kinky Phone Femdomme

Rachel@enchantrixempire.com

1-800-356-6169