Hello, Horny Readers! I acknowledge that there are many different kinds of sissies. To My mind, however, there are two constants in sissyhood, no matter what other variables might be in place: feminization, and submission. Among sissies who love cock, and consider it part of their sissy identity to be cock-servicers, there are those whose feminization is aimed at making themselves attractive to Real Men, and their main submission is to Real Men. Okay so far. But some of these cockslut sissies compare themselves favorably to Real Women, and even suggest that they are better. [Insert record scratch sound here.] A good dose of sissy humiliation is needed to put these gurls in their rightful place. Now then, let’s dispel a few delusions, shall W/e?
Delusion #1: Real Men prefer sissies to Real Women.
Gurls, here are the facts: Yes, there are a small number of men who prefer sissies to Real Women, especially those who have made remarkable progress with their feminization, but this number is very, very small. That’s just reality. And among this small number, most prefer sissies to Real Women because sissies, being failed males, often still have the libido and lack of impulse control in sexual matters that characterizes the standard male. They are willing to be–and I daresay are even aroused by being–treated in ways that Real Women usually won’t tolerate due to self-respect.
Another portion of these men likes everything about women, but has a kink for cock which the feminization of a sissy allows them to explore. This throws a little wrench in things when most cockslut sissies I know are bottoms, and don’t want their clitties stimulated at all. Furthermore, to a man with such tastes, you usually aren’t better, or even as good. You are usually simply good enough.
It’s a necessary piece of sissy humiliation for gurls to absorb the fact that the feminine wiles of Real Women will always attract the overwhelming majority of Real Men, no matter how slavishly a feminized fuckslut throws he/rself at his crotch.
Delusion #2: Sissies are better at being women than Real Women.
Sweetie, the sissy humiliation reality is that you may be better at being a caricature of femme than a real femme, but then, the mystic attractions of Real Womanhood are about more than how well you simulate a blowup doll. You may be better at appealing to the basest instincts of mankind, but that doesn’t mean you should compare yourself to a Real Woman, at all. Better at being women? No. Better at being a cum dump? I’ll give you that. Have at it!
Delusion #3: Sissy Pussy is better at pleasing cock than Real Pussy.
Bitch, please.
The most recent reason I heard for this is because a sissy pussy is supposedly tighter and has more muscle control. I guess feminization can’t hide everything, namely the typical male ignorance about female anatomy.
Both respond well to Kegels, but vagina is much more amenable to muscular training than the ass pussy. If your ass pussy is tighter (at first), the reality is that it’s because it’s not specifically made to be forced open the way you do. Girl pussy is made to accept and to stimulate cock. Ass pussy can be made to do it. Think about the difference between those two sentences. I think some of you gurls are thinking back to how loose a vagina felt around your undersized clitty.
Gurls, Real Womanhood is something you can choose to emulate, and should definitely respect. Let’s face it, you wouldn’t have the inspiration for your dreams without Us. Even if your main goal is to submit to a Real Man, you only look pathetic when you make foolhardy assertions like the above. Sissy humiliation training dictates that you are a sissy because you’re no good at being a man, and will never be a Real Woman, either. Contentment can be found in embracing your place, but that place will never be above Exalted Womanhood.
It is s shame and perplexing that some sissy subs feel they could ever compete with a real woman. Clearly, we should know better…I mean women are superior to males PERIOD….sissy or not! For me, being a sissy is realization of my place serving BOTH women and men…..and while in chastity and panties to NEVER to pretend I am a real man!
You’re a very good gurl though, princess. Not everyone feels as at home in their sissy identity as you do. Some, secretly I think, wish they could be Real Women, more than that they realize they are sissies.
As a feminised sissy I would never consider myself to be anywhere near equal to my Mistress or indeed any woman. As a failed man my place is in my knees and being the best giurl I can in service to my superiors involved he hope of pleasing them and keeping my place as the maid
Good gurl, maid steph!
Sissy will never be as good as a woman. Gurl is not the same or equal to girl!
Vanilla has some issues, vanilla has been a sissy gurl for a while, but now is transitioning to a t-gurl. Only need to lose the little male clitty cock to something better, but even then vanilla won’t really consider herself a real girl. But the first night vanilla can properly fuck her man, can actually rid on top of him taking his big black cock into her cunt, will be heaven! Maybe the money will work out this year.
So, sissy can stay sissy but can grow into much more.
Well vanilla, given that I believe O/ur identities are as much if not more between O/ur ears as between O/ur legs, only you get to decide who you are, and how to get there. I can only wish you your dreams come true!
If you visit with a therapist, even most American insurance companies cover the cost of a woman’s genital surgery under the WPATH medical standards.
You absolutely do not have to save up your own money to pay for medically necessary bottom surgery if you use your medical insurance.
Outside of that, you’re on your own. Breasts, any facial surgery, laser hair removal, reproductive materials storage, voice therapy, and some hormones depending on form of administration are not considered medically necessary to transition according to American insurance companies.
Hopefully that helped.
Oh Chas, thank you so much for your post and thoughts. vanilla’s insurance will cover her, the saying waiting for money is kind of a euphemism for getting all the ducks in a row, ready for down time, not working, etc. Since vanilla mainly makes money by being an escort/outcall masseuse there will be some changes, want a bit of a bit of spare cash around. I mean, men who will pay for a she-male chick with a dick are more than someone for a post op trans gurl. Sort of like when I had my testicles removed, it was advised to put in the silicone fake ones as most men wanted rocks with the stick whether real or not. My experiences back this up.
Although, oh, the thought of giving my master a brand new pussy, it will be giving him my greatest gift, my new virginity, just for him to take. I long to crawl on top of his masculine big black body and slide my new cunt down over his cock, finally get to ride him right, and feel him cum inside me, I lust for it!
Mistress I loved the way you said, “Bitch Please!”
As a sissy girl /panty princess it makes me feel who but I can’t compete with a real vagina and I don’t want too!
Being in touch with my femininity completes me but it’s the woman who I’m with that I want to please I want her to know that yes I wear lingerie but I’ve earned my panties by sucking dick. I also learned excellent cocksucking behavior I don’t ever cram my sissy penis down her throat or act selfish by not telling when I’m cumming. We talk about this prior to the blow job she will tell me hey I don’t swallow or yes cum on my face. I learned to be a considerate sissy. I know how to be or have proper manners as a woman sucks my cock I’m gentle and tender. I understand lingerie I love seeing a woman dress for dick so I always compliment my woman’s efforts.
I love women I love dick and I love my sissyhood and thanks for women like you to put me in my place. A vagina Is better than anything I have but I sure do enjoy trying to earn a woman’s respect. I’m preparing to make love like a woman and I’m going to earn the title pussy bitch Thank you Mistress
What a saga! Thanks for sharing it! Good luck in your future sissy endeavors, and I’m glad you enjoyed the post!
There is no question…the pussy of a real women will always be the most superior and amazing thing that ANY man could ever have the pleasure of feeling wrapped around his cock. I completely agree, some sissies have these delusions and must be put in their place, and you are certainly the perfect Mistress to do just that!!
Thank you, Miss Sierra! I mean, I like to avoid hurting feelings when I can, but methinks some of these cockslut sissies get a little cum-drunk and lose their minds!
Such an awesome post Ms Rachel! I love the way you went into detail highlighting all the differences between a sissy gurl and a real girl. You have really put them in their place. Thinking they have any thing over the “Exalted Woman”? As you so eloquently put it…bitch, please!
Thank you, Miss Rayne! I mean, I can play nice and W/e can be bffs and I’ll do all I can to help your sissy dreams come true . . . as long as you know your place. If you don’t, I’m forced to be mean!
You are correct to call out those who don’t understand who they really are. I’ve come to the realization that my main purpose is to bring pleasure to men. Men that for whatever reason typically are not able to get pussy from their wife probably because they are too pathetic for them so they turn to substitutes like myself. I enjoy feeling pretty and I enjoy pleasing men but I am not a woman. As you correctly stated there is nothing wrong for sissies like us aspiring to live this way but we should never proclaim to be something we are not.
I’m glad you understand, Kelli. I mean, it would be different if W/e were talking about girls who are Trans, because they’re women. But a trans girl would never differentiate herself from real women, because she IS one. That’s one of the ways I can tell whether or not I’m dealing with a fellow woman who happens to have a cock, and a sissy who’s forgotten he/rself.
Reading the comments from the LDW ladies it is clear that provided the sissy knows her place and lowly status to all women there is harmony.
Maybe it is acceptable for the sissy to be addressesld as Girl she must be made aware that the feminine noun does not make her female and she will never be a lady or woman
That’s why I spell it g-u-r-l, when referring to a sissy, maid steph! To note the difference. 🙂
Ms Olivia & Ms Delia have dressed/turned and kept me as a girl. Both said when I went with them on second life that I need to be changed but I didn’t know what they meant. With Ms Olivia sitting & cuddling on my lap giving me lipstick kisses on my cheeks I became weak. They said asked if I wanted to wear her bra/panty set and they stripped me and had me wear it. Then we went shopping and they had me wear slip them sheath body con dress along with me getting makeover done to me. When they were done I had petite/soft/smooth body with long hair/lipstick marks on my cheeks and collar around my neck with label saying cream puff. All the mistressss kniw that they turned me into a girl and both said they plan on keeping me this way all the time.
And I’m sure you’re much happier now, petey!
I am Ms Rachel. They are to hot and sexy to say no to. They have turned me into their lesbian cream puff girl. I’m so petite/soft and feminine. My body has girlish curves my nails are so long after Ms Olivia did them and my hair is so long it always gets in my eyes draping down my shoulders. With body con sheath dress in size 6 and high heels they said I’m going to stay this way lol the time and now with collar and tag around my neck with cream puff on lag that’s what I am now.
The idea of a sissy being a real thing is new to me. I used to think “sissy” was just a word girls (or guys) on the school playground could tease you with but I am now learning it is a real thing. I think I feel a bit like a sissy maybe. How do you “know”? Is it a feeling? Just being male but not feeling masculine?
Well mike, some sissies still consider themselves so based off of the archaic use of the term, and frankly, I kind of like it! You know, if you’re not necessarily overtly feminine, but a weak little milquetoast. A sissy, in My experience, tends to be drawn to all things femme, or is pushed toward them because they are failed males. You can be a failed male without being feminized, however, so really I think the difference is being drawn or easily pushed toward all things femme–grooming, clothing, etc.
Is it “normal” or usual to want to acknowledge that you feel weak?
And are most sissies drawn to girly things? Is that just part of it?
Is it something you have always known or can it emerge over time?
Is it connected to now feeling manly? Lastly is it best to “admit” it
if you feel that way. It seems like something that one feels they need
hide.
That was a bit sad.
I like humiliation here and there, and like feeling controlled, but I felt pretty bad about myself for having a non cis identity after reading that.
Well Rose, like I said in another comment, there’s a difference between being a sissy and being transgender or non-binary. So I’m not quite sure how this post really involves you as a non-binary person at all. I’m sorry you feel sad.
To me, like you I’d agree there is that difference between someone who is transsexual who ‘is’ about and inhabits the exact same space as anyone assigned as female at birth and one who may approximate to the dress and mannerism of a woman but has no desire nor intention to inhabit that space and be just a Woman who was born with a male body.
I know that isn’t me having looked around of it and that I am a sissy so it would be incorrect to be afford the same status. I prefer mistresses who are plain speaking around of it and who call me ‘gurl’ just to assert who I am and remind me of what I’m not because being a sissy is a very valid identity in itself.
Thank you for your understanding, Sissy Candy, and for taking the time to visit My blog!
Well said on all counts!
I didn’t know my place…for a while…but I sure do now…..as a flaming sissy, everyone tells me it is sooo obvious…..omg it is NOTTT…but I so cannot contain it anymore…..I have to try to be MALE now……besides, if everyone thinks I do it…I might as well enjoy it…….so there.
Hello Miss Rachel,
I was exploring back in your blogs around the concept of humiliation. (I guess your new t-shirts got something going in my panties!) Do you do sessions where the target of humiliation is sissy’s desire for cock? Making them admit it, admit their fantasies, admit what they would do if a real cock walked in the door in the middle of their sissy mistress phone sex session? That would be extremely humiliating to me, especially how hard my clitty would get, betraying the utter truth of my confessions. I was wondering if that was a typical ‘humiliation trope’.
Pantied and slutty,
Gem