I thought it was about time for one of these!
1.) Are you always/only hardcore?
No! I have a well-developed sensual side. My blog IS called Sensual-Domme.com, after all.
The problem is, some guys forget the Domme part.
I’d like to think I can be quite friendly, whether you like regular conversation, or play!
But I don’t switch, and I don’t facilitate the GFE experience (Girlfriend Experience, Vanilla/mainstream phone sex). I don’t simulate orgasm in sessions, and I’m not crazy about being called endearments (“baby”, “honey”, “sweetie” etc.).
In other words, the control can be so subtle, you might think it’s GFE, but the control is always there and acknowledged by U/s both.
2.) “I want to give you something over and above the cost of a session. How do I do that?”
Why thank you!
One option is to leave Me a Virtual Bouquet. You might see it referred to as a VB around the Empire.
“Virtual Bouquet” is a polite way of saying “a financial gesture of appreciation”.
A VB needs to be associated with a purchase (like a session or a custom audio) which has been made within 7 days of your gift.
How do you include one?
Call Our dispatchers at 1-800-356-6169 and say, “I had a session this week/am calling for a session right now with Goddess Rachel and would like to give Her a VB of [x amount] to go with it.”
When purchasing a custom audio from Me via the site, you can add a VB to your cart before checkout along with the cost of your audio order. Click here, scroll down, and you should see an option for adding one.
An E-mail deliverable gift card is another option.
3.) “Why won’t you masturbate as part of our session?”
I need complete concentration to do My best in leading you through your favorite session, and complete concentration to masturbate as well.
I can only give My complete concentration to one thing at a time.
I am often wet and aroused when on a call. And I’ll even sometimes tell you how aroused I am. But it’s one of My little idiosyncrasies that being asked to masturbate is a turn-off for Me.
I like to be the one to command (or invite) your masturbation! ?
Not the other way around.
Unless, that is, it’s an ignore session. And hell, if you want to pay Me to have a masturbation break in the middle of My busy day, well, I’m game!
But you have to phrase it right. Something like, “Goddess Rachel, may I pine in silent frustration with only the buzzing of your Doxy wand and your moans of pleasure to keep Me company?” ?
If you long for a mutual masturbation session, get in touch with Our wonderful concierge desk for a line on who will let their fingers do the walking or their vibrator buzz away, right along with you!
4.) “How can I find out when you’re available for sessions?”
The best thing to do is check out the pinned post on My blog. That’s where I keep up to the minute schedule information.
Bookmark it, even!
And check back regularly!
If you want to be sure you’ll get My undivided attention for a period of time on a given day, contact Me to make an appointment. My availability for appointments is anywhere from 11am** to 3am Eastern time.
Request an appointment, or get in touch for any other reason by E-mail or Skype:
E-mail: Rachel@enchantrixempire.com
Skype: enchantrixrachel.
**Appointments set to begin before 2pm Eastern time must be made by Midnight Eastern the day of.
If you’re looking for a general schedule, see here.
5.) “How long will it take you to get My custom audio done?”
It depends on how many others I have in the queue in front of yours, how busy I am with sessions, etc..
I will give you an estimate when you make your final arrangements. But in general, it’s best to give Me at least a week for every 10 minutes of audio you desire. This includes time to write the script (if you’re having Me do so), record, and edit.
6.) “Can I see naked pictures of you/Your boyfriend?”
No.
I have some more intimate or uncensored photos I share with long-established playmates, but I don’t send them out willy-nilly. Also, My boyfriend, one of the only two males whose preferences about My doings I consider, has also asked Me to be extremely judicious as to who I share My “whole self” with, and out of respect for him, I comply.
Let’s face it: If you wanted free and easy graphic smut, the internet is full of it. We exist because a certain subset of kinksters want more than that, and I prefer to cater that mindset.
With regard to My boyfriend, even though I have his utter support in what I do, and even though I do tell him about some of you (which he enjoys), he has no interest in being any more involved than that.
7.) “Can W/e just watch porn together?”
Hell yes.
As long as what’s going on is safe(er), sane, and consensual, W/e can have a viewing party!
Check out this post I wrote about how to arrange for a porn gooner watch party!
You don’t even have to be a gooner, or into humiliation. You just have to like the idea of sharing what visual stimulation turns you on!
8.) “Why don’t you do Giantess/shrinking calls?”
Because as intriguing as the idea is, I just don’t connect with it enough to provide you what I think you’re looking for in a session of this type.
If you want to try to teach Me, you’re welcome to try!
As a matter of fact, there are a few kinks I’m not the best with, and rather than have you find that out on the phone, it’s really better for U/s to connect before your session to assure compatibility.
E-mail Me (Rachel@enchantrixempire.com) or Skype chat Me (enchantrixrachel) if you’re not sure!
9.) “Why does everyone in Our fantasies have to be portrayed as of legal age/age of consent?”
- I can’t connect to certain fantasies, and therefore can’t facilitate them.
- Remember safe, sane, and consensual? It’s called “the age of consent” for a reason, and ethically, I can’t justify even portraying anything outside of that.
- Gentle, sensual, but controlling/humiliating talk I can do. “Age regression” talk, whether I’m doing the talking or you are, gets on My nerves, frankly.
10.) “What kind of toy should I get for training My ass?”
It depends on what you want it for, whether humiliation (where it doesn’t matter whether or not it
feels good) or you are trying to reach prostate orgasm, or somewhere in between. Please check out this tab and the accompanying blog post(s) for more.
If I had to provide general advice to an anal virgin, I would simply say, don’t be a coward, but don’t get too ambitious, either.
If you’d like a more indepth recommendation, consider getting yourself a personalized one.
11.) “What are your top 5 favorite kinks to explore in a session?”
- Anything having to do with a dominant man being serviced by a submissive man, whether that be coerced bisexuality, cuckold fluffing, or cocksucker/fuckslut fantasies
- Anything having to do with anal play or prostate masturbation
- All things Cock Control (guided masturbation, cockteasing, gooner encouragement, edging, orgasm control/delay/denial)
- Most things humiliation-oriented
- Pain and impact play of all kinds (cbt, spanking, etc.)
12.) “Why do I have to pay to talk to you/play with you?”
You don’t. To chat with Me, that is. But I do fantasy play ONLY in session.
(Well, I make plenty of blog posts and erotic audios you can enjoy for free, and I’d like to think those can get pretty steamy, but I get that what you’re asking about is more reciprocal.)
And I repeat, you don’t have to pay to hit Me up on Skype for a little getting-to-know-you chat. If I have time, I enjoy chatting on Skype about what kinks you might like to explore in a session. Same with exchanging E-mails. But note that I said if I have time.
My day involves more than just sitting around waiting for the phone to ring. There are lots of things I do behind the scenes that enable Me to provide the superlative Femdom phone sex experience that you seek. So while I will gladly chat with you (without fantasy play) on Skype in a getting-to-know-you fashion, I simply don’t have time to talk all day long.
As to why I reserve explicit play for sessions:
- Because sometimes people who are not 18+ hit Me up to chat, get sexual, and ew to that. Nothing wrong with youthful curiosity, but I need the assurance, ethically and according to personal taste, that whomever I engage is of legal age. You are vetted for such when you arrange for a session.
- Because what I do requires My time, My concentration, My creativity, My intelligence, My sexual energy, and My expertise, and I don’t think there’s anything wrong with expecting to be compensated for the expenditure of any of those (in the interactional sense). If you didn’t see the value in what I do, you wouldn’t want it so much. So why is it so hard for you to imagine I see the value in it as well, and might want more than your orgasm to show that you agree?
If this were a utopia, all the attention of all the dominant beautiful women would be free to anyone who wants it, anytime, expecting nothing in return. But this isn’t a utopia. And that’s not a realistic or fair expectation.
There are plenty of sexy amateurs who probably share your kinks with whom you can connect via various social media platforms. Get involved. Look them up. You can have all the free sex play you want, depending on where you look.
13.) “I can’t afford sessions. What should I do?”
I sympathize. But I unabashedly admit and accept the fact that what I offer is a luxury. I further accept the fact that not everyone can afford luxuries, and so should you.
Or, you should do what most people do when they really want a treat that’s beyond their means at the moment: save up for it.
If you go out on the weekends and eat dinner and run up a bar tab, you can afford a session. If you choose to do so, that is. It’s about priorities.
On the other hand, in this day and age, some folks are not in a position to afford any luxury at all. And as I say, I do sympathize. So, here’s what you can do:
- Enjoy all the free content available around the Empire, like the Mistress blogs, group blogs, free audios, etc.
- Join Enchantrix Perks, Our rewards program, where you accrue points for sessions you’ve had that can be redeemed for more time, or other erotic purchases.
- Look around at the Mistress blogs and watch for contests different Mistresses do. The reward is often free minutes. These are often announced on The Daily Cock, so that can be a central location to keep you informed.
Hope this helps!
That’s all for now, but as questions crop up that seem to occur frequently, I’ll amend the page.
Do you have a question the answer to which you’ve always wondered? Feel free to get in touch via E-mail at Rachel@enchantrixempire.com, and I’ll more than likely be happy to reply!
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