Hello, Horny Readers! This post was inspired by an exchange I had on Twitter, with an eager fuckslut who was apparently attracted to My fondness for strap-ons. At one point, he tweeted, “Yeah, you’d love to fuck my tight ass, wouldn’t you?” It rubbed Me the wrong way. It’s not that I don’t like or want a submissive who’s enthusiastic in his submission. In fact, that’s often exactly what I seek. But there’s a fine line between being a power bottom, and topping from the bottom, and it’s all too easy to cross. I think this potential anal slave crossed it, which is why I was put off. Let Me elaborate.
The term “power bottom” comes from the gay male world. Typically, a power bottom takes control of the fucking, and is sometimes dominant. In fact, some people would immediately associate the designation of power bottom with dominance. And that’s fine, if you aren’t, in fact, submissive. Sexy, even. But in My femdom world, a power bottom can have a voracious appetite and the bottomless pit fuck hole to match, as long as the attitude that comes with it remains humble. What goes on in your head and what comes out of your mouth is more important than what’s going into your ass, or who does most of the work in deciding how it gets there.
In fact, most of the sissies and bottom boys I play with energetically ride the cocks and strap ons of their choice, once they get broken in. Both I and My boyfriend agree that an anal slave doesn’t need to be silent, or to be a pillow princess who just stays in what ever position they’re placed to take what ever is dished out to them (though at times that’s sexy, too, and easiest for beginners). “Fuck me”, heartily cried, is well-received in many scenes, accompanied by an arched back and plenty of force meeting the top’s thrust. But a well-informed anal slave knows the difference in tone between pleading and demanding.
I mean, technically, the answer to My Twitter follower’s query was “yes”. Yes, I would probably like to see his tight asshole straining open around My big fat dong, but if anyone is going to beg, it’s going to be him. And with the femdom faux pas he made, it would likely be begging Me to stop, or for more lube.
That’ll teach ’em.
I don’t think I’m a ‘power’ anything sexually…But I am a bottom! So I LOVE this post thinking about being an anal slave is soooooooo Hot! I will take your guidance and stay humble and obedient 🙂 Thanks Ms R!
Good boy (?), cuckie!
The wordss ‘Good boy’ are always welcome…..but you’re right, “Good Gurl” is probably more appropriate now 🙂
I think that would definitely have rubbed me the wrong way, too! I have zero patience for demanding power bottoms in my femdom world…though you are totally right in pointing out that there is a clear difference between demanding and pleading! And like you, I absolutely love a bottom who is vocal and resposive while I am fucking him (or her)…the sound of a moaning, begging, pleading slave is music to my ears!
I totally agree, Miss Sierra. Maybe that’s why I often ride ass with My leather crop nearby. I think sometimes in the midst of pleasure, enthusiastic fuckboys forget themselves, and cross the line without meaning to! A nice cut with the crop usually brings them back. lol
I love the sentiments you expressed in this post, Ms Rachel! Always better to be a begging cock craver than even to think about being a demanding one! Yes, it’s important and empowering for one to know what they want sexually, but approaching Mistress with the wrong attitude could blow up in your face faster than an orgasming cock!
Hahahahaha! I love that last line Miss Rayne, you genius you! LOL And so correct!
Ms. Rachel you said it very eloquently and astutely as usual! Nothing annoys Me to no end more than a demanding little ass slut that thinks they are running the show. They are here to entertain and give US pleasure and amusement. I think some bitches forget that and need a strong fem dom pimp hand now and again. I bet if you and I got a hold of this little topping from the bottom bitch he wouldn’t be such a demanding little ass queen *giggle*.
OMG Y’all need to come visit more often! These turns of phrase are making My week! “fem dom pimp hand”! OMG!! <3
Oh, vanilla never, ever tries to top from the bottom! She is the kind of gurl who always begs and pleads for her ramming, like the good little fucktoy she is. Whether hir ass is opened for a big strapping man, or hir Mistress’s big, hard strap on, she always is grateful to whoever is using hir. She humbly begs for her ass to be used, always like a cock addicted slut, never demands! Of course, best is two cocks or strap ons, one in the mouth, one in her butt, can’t get uppity and demanding if your mouth if full!
Wow, that’s hot, vanilla! You know just how to be a little rotisserie slut! My boyfriend and I would have great fun with you!
Vanilla would love to be your and your boyfriend’s little rotisserie slut, great description! Who would get which hole? Or would vanilla do ATM for you both? vanilla would love to slurp your boyfriend’s yummy cum or take it on hir face like a good little whore. vanilla bets he would love to play with her little pierced titties.
I think We’d switch back and forth, but just as you suggest, We’d want to finish with Adam in front, so He could give you a big creamy facial!
Oh I love this post. I certainly agree and I want to beg Rachel for her strap on cock. I think I would beg to clean it up afterwards, too!
OMG you dirty slut! lol Sounds like My kind of bottom bitch! Glad you enjoyed the post, but remain coy in public like this with the “cleaning up” part. lol
Oh, I meant with a brush and cleaning fluids!
LOL! You don’t have to take it back, at least not on My account. I was just warning you not to get more specific. Unless W/e’re in session, that is. 😉