analingusHello, Horny Readers!  I’m writing to you today with a confession on My mind.  Everyone who’s kept up with Me for a while knows that I am almost obsessed with man ass. But not many know that My interest in the male asshole and what lies beyond it also extends to analingus. Even, sometimes, where submissives are concerned. But as far as subby boys go, they only get eaten before I fuck them with My strap on.  And not just any fuckboy will do.

It may not be obvious to everyone, but not all submissive males are beta males.  They aren’t all shy, retiring, small, skinny, or with small cocks.  It isn’t necessarily the body of the slave that makes him fit to serve or be used, controlled, dominated and humiliated (though under-endowed milquetoasts are not represented among those I could ever respect as Alpha males).  I’ve seen visual evidence that some boys who long to be Mistress’ plaything can be very conventionally sexy indeed:  fit, masculine, hung, and can, speaking to the subject of this post, have a nice muscular bubble butt to go with it.  I think sometimes I can long to explore the tight, toned man-pussy of one of the above almost as much, if not more, than that of a spindly little dong-rider, including eating it.

“Mistress, isn’t analingus an inherently submissive activity?”

I’ll use the anecdote of a friend to make My point.  She’s a beautiful Black woman, and very proud of that fact. She and I bonded over Our self-proclaimed status as lay historians.  She lived in several countries in Africa during Our early 20’s, and will probably move there when She retires in the distant future.  But She also likes Emo and Heavy Metal music.  People have teased Her about this fact, opining that these are not types of music that Black people like.  Her sterling response was something like, “I am Black.  I like those.  Therefore, they are genres of music that Black people like.”

The point is, if you didn’t get it, that the meaning of an activity or a taste is affected, and maybe even defined, by who has taken it up.  A Mistress who occasionally tongue-fucks the asshole She intends to penetrate is no more giving up Her status as a dominant woman than a Black woman who likes rock music is divorcing herself from her ethnicity.

Analingus can actually be a tool for humiliation.

A male submitting to a woman is already a subversion of mainstream societal expectations.  That subversion is doubled when the woman is the one doing the penetrating during sex.  Putting a man who may be dominant everywhere else in his life on his elbows and knees is vulnerable enough, but then consider the deeply-ingrained animal resistance of the male of the species to having someone expose their asshole, especially with all the confusion there still is for straight men regarding sexual orientation and sex acts.  I find that deepening that disorientation and forcibly breaking those bonds with societal expectations is even more powerful in men who are generally seen as paragons.  When I’ve got a boy face down, spread wide, and am teasing his fuckbutton, telling him between slurps what a pretty pussy he’s got and how wide I’m going to stretch it while he struggles not to give away how much he’s enjoying himself, I feel utterly in control.

In short, for Me, Femdom ass play that includes analingus from dominant to submissive is not in-congruent at all.  I want to own and use your asshole.  It’s just that sometimes, that includes licking it.

Thoughts?