Dear readers, one of the best ways to ensure that you have a wonderful session lies in choosing the right phone sex Mistress. One of my ongoing aims at www.Sensual-Domme.com is to help my readers get to know me, in terms of who I am as a person, my erotic experiences and tastes, as well as what one can expect from me in an erotic phone sex session.
It may seem counterintuitive for me to tell you what I don’t favor, rather than telling you what I do, but I would rather have it known if there is a fantasy with which I do not connect well, so that another Mistress with the ability to facilitate that fantasy will bring you the experience you truly need.
There aren’t many kinks with which I cannot connect erotically. Within certain parameters, I look forward to having my horizons broadened. But I think everyone knows what simply doesn’t work for them, open mind or no.
So it’s fair to ask, in the universe of kink, is Miss Rachel ever submissive? Does Miss Rachel “switch”?
Well readers, the short answer to that question is “no”. At least not if I can help it.
I adore the D/s dynamic. I value subordinates, as they are essential to my pleasure. But I am decidedly on the D side of it. I love to take a man (or woman), to sweep them up into my imagination like a hawk dropping out of the sky to snare a meal, whether it be for the purpose of guided masturbation, encouraging crossdressing, or even kinkier scenarios. 😉 It makes me flush with excitement and my body pulse with adrenaline. But I have never responded emotionally, psychologically, or physically to being subject to anyone else’s control.
I’ve tried it in my personal life, and the best way to describe it is like wearing a suit of ill-fitting, scratchy clothes, added to the reflexive enacting of a sense of righteous indignation borne of the feeling that it is simply not where I belong. If you are heterosexual, both in life and in fantasy, imagine being coerced to suck cock. It must be similar to that.
Ideally, I will have had contact with someone before our session, whether in YIM chat, through Enchantrix Empire, the Community Kink chatroom, or via a pre-session E-mail conversation.
This is the avenue in which I can gently suggest to someone who’s feeling dominant that I am not likely the best dreamweaver for him. I find that most inquiring potential callers appreciate my honesty.
Maybe some of you are thinking, well, as long as the caller can’t tell that you aren’t truly invested in the fantasy, what does it matter?
Dear readers, it matters to me. You and I are taking a psychological as well as a physical journey together. It may be that the psychological journey plays more of a role than what one does mechanically. You are making yourself vulnerable to me (or at least I hope you are. *sinister giggle*), and I believe that vulnerability deserves my honest and wholehearted investment.
So this, for those who wondered, is my position statement with regard to the potential for Miss Rachel to function as a submissive in role play phone sex. I hope this has been useful information and food for thought, especially for the purposes of encouraging some of you in determining whether you are submissive or dominant, or perhaps a mixture of both. There’s room for all of us in the sexual kingdom, and with regard to a successful phone sex fantasy session, or any sexual experience, it can only be helpful to figure out your place in it.
i could make u submit….
Well you go right ahead and fantasize about that, sweetie. 🙂 That’s the only place that’ll happen–in your dreams. 🙂
I admire blur’s confidence, if not his charm and eloquence. The crowning of “the next Cary Grant” will have to wait…
Miss Rachel, to paraphrase the great Reservoir Dogs, “if I did anything like that in my dreams, I would wake up in apologize”. Which is a moot point b/c as far as my imagination is concerned you are in your sensually dominant element, dreams or waking hours.
I just watched Reservoir Dogs for the first time in a long time last week! Great movie, and great quote!
Thank you for your sweet words, Castaway. I didn’t really take serious offense to blur’s remark–after all, we are all here to fantasize, right?
Yes Mistress, I can’t wait to submit to you! I want it so bad, and knowing your only dominate, only makes me want to show you my panties, my tan lines, my toys and share with you all the other submissive things I’ve been up too! Congradulations, your now on the list of Mistresses, I’m dying to cam for!
Oh MY, Vanessa! It sounds as if you have a lot of slutty secrets to share! And I love a good cam show!
Okay, I’m not asking you to switch. I just want to have regular hetero sex with you. You are so beautiful and kinda remind me of my highschool girlfriend. You see? I am hetero after all. I also have an 8 1/2 inch long dick and plenty of experience. Ya, I wanna feel you up. I am worth it.
Heh. Well, you can fantasize about that all you want, but I don’t do GFE sessions, and in the flesh I have a boyfriend of ten years who’s packing 9.5. So . . .
Thanks for reading!
Thank you for even bothering to talk to me. You are still so hot to me.
Well of course! I don’t mind chatting at all, and I’m thankful you were interested enough in a blog post of Mine to read and comment!
And thank you for the compliment! 😉