Hello, Horny Readers! This is another of those blog posts inspired by a question a submissive asked Me in private. As is often the case, I figured it was something more than one of you had wondered about, even if he was the first to ask. The question? Mistress, do you actually get pleasure out of being the aggressor in pain play? If so, why?
My answer? Why yes. Yes I do.
It doesn’t really matter what form it takes, pain play is a stress reliever for Me. It’s arousing, and amusing. Further, giving you a good spanking, or spending some time tormenting your nipples, stretching and/or slapping your balls, or any number of other manifestations of impact play I may visit upon you function for Me like a deep tissue massage followed by a nice mug of chamomile tea. Submitting to your Mistress’ desire to inflict discomfort on you is, therefore, a very giving, loving thing to do!
You’re contributing to My well-being!
Why do I sigh with relief when you moan with discomfort?
Call it a curious type of empathy. When I see your flesh laid bare, I feel a tingle along My own skin in the same place, imagining your goosebumps of anticipation of the blow, pinch, prickle, zap, or drizzle of hot wax. I can almost feel the sensation of each Myself when they land and you cry out, your muscles contract, your skin blushes, your body writhes.
When your respiration quickens, so does mine, both from exertion and excitement. I imagine the reverberations of the sensations you are experiencing from the first shock to the almost tantric dissipation, and the cycle starts all over again.
It’s almost as if I’m masturbating, but psychologically rather than physically. You could also say that pain play is a way of you and I fucking, but on a different plane.
Would you like to do something special for Me?
Well, you can buy Me a spa day . . . or slap your balls for Me while I watch on Skype for half an hour. To answer the question posed by My pain sub, the effects are pretty much the same!
Until next time,
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I love this blog —- and the either or choice made me laugh —- pain or spa day ! OMG hahahahahhahahaha! Can I use that line? It’s really perfect. And, oh wow …. pain play is huge stress relief for the Mistress AND also for the submissive. Kinky therapy for sure!
Hello, My dear Miss Olivia! You are welcome to use that line! And, agreed about the stress relief factor going both ways!
As a denied sissy cuckold in chastity ….24/7 and now more than 365….Pain can be a stress relief for me as well (maybe the only stress relief)! Whether it’s spanking with a paddle or brush, CBT with a ruler or nipple torment with clothes pins….Suffering for Mistress is one of the highest forms of devotion and service. Great post Ms R!
I’m not surprised to read that, princess! It’s safe to say that pain play can take both the Dominant and the submissive where they need to go psychologically!
Ms Rachel, so well said. There is something very comforting in being engaged with another who is willing to suffer for his Mistress’s pleasure. This is what makes Mistressing so wonderful.
Submissives often forget that without their submission, WE wouldn’t get Our dominant needs met. Submission is a gift, not just a privilege! Thanks Miss Cindy!
I think one of the high points of my fetish life will always be the moment when I had a ring of clothespins around each nipple and I realized that at some point in the midst of all that exquisite agony I’d turned rock hard. I very much enjoyed putting on that show for You.
A precious memory! xoxo