Hello, Horny Readers! I love impact play. In fact, sometimes it seems the hornier I get, the more into dishing out pain and humiliation I become. Spanking is one of the easier ways to indulge My sadistic streak in the context of Femdom phone sex. There’s a form of spanking humiliation I particularly like, however, about which you and I can only fantasize: bare bottom and over the knee! What makes it such a potent fantasy?
First, I think it’s emasculating. When I put an adult male slave over My lap, bottom naked and exposed, penis dangling down between My thighs, he is made to experience a brand of vulnerability and embarrassment that he likely hasn’t experienced in a long, long time.
Man Demoted to Boy
Those who were raised with corporeal punishment remember the moment when they grew “too big to be spanked”. This distinction isn’t just a physical one. When a person becomes aware of concepts like privacy and personal dignity, as well as their right to claim them, one may say they’ve grown out of being spanked. The disciplinarian usually becomes instinctively aware of the onset of this time, and spanking as a means of behavior correction stops.
Coercing a grown man into a position he thought he aged out of is like stripping him of the particular brand of autonomy that adulthood supposedly confers. To most people, perhaps the image of the emasculated submissive usually translates to a male rendered effectively female, but it can also refer to a man demoted back down to the status of boy, and at no time in the realm of spanking humiliation is this more clear than when the spanking is administered bare bottom and over-the-knee.
Spanking Humiliation: Physically Vulnerable
Emasculation as described above is psychological. An over-the-knee spanking also leaves a male slave deliciously vulnerable physically. Once you solve the problem of hands reaching back to cover the reddened, tender flesh, and the problem of kicking legs*, this position can render the target of spanking humiliation wide open to other means of erotic exploitation.
Between the blushed ass cheeks is the asshole of course. It adds something especially satisfying to pause mid-spank and violate that hole. I’ve got My fingers, or even the smooth, rounded handle of the hairbrush at My disposal.
Sometimes I like to squeeze an ass plug into place before spanking commences. Blows to the assmeat usually cause reflexive contracting of the asshole. Thus, the slave becomes acutely aware of this secondary form of the violation of his autonomy
Also there’s that dangling cock and vulnerable balls. The balls are conveniently located so that I can pull them back through his legs and sandwich them between his thighs. Inevitably, some of the blows land at least partially on the nutsack. If I don’t pull the balls back, the pressure exerted from underneath by My strategically-placed thigh, exacerbated from time to time by the bowing of a spank-boy’s body in response to discomfort, adds a nice little touch of cock and ball torment.
The cock and balls can also be squeezed between My thighs for either mild cbt or a rather intense form of cockteasing, especially if I’m wearing stockings. These provide stimulation at turns abrasive and tickling. If the subject of spanking humiliation is a pain piggy, he will probably be erect. This gives him a thrill of humiliation all by itself, and leaves him open to other kinds of teasing and denial.
So there you have it, readers. Whose cock tingles at the thought of an over-the-knee spanking? Do you relate to the above? Why does it arouse you so much? Do you prefer a hand, or a hairbrush?
Feel free to share in the comments below!
My Ms puts me over her knee for a good, hard spanking with her hairbrush as correction for her sissy maid.
The humiliation and thrill as she icily orders me to remove me panties. I lay acres her lap and she lifts me dress and petticoats to expose me. She waits a few moments before administering the first of many hard thwacks. When she has finished I am blubbering like a baby. Through the tears I thank her for the punishment and ho back to ny chores. A well spanked bottom does focus the mind
Oh yes!….that command to bend over, lift your skirt and pull down your panties…..Oh my!
The panties trapped somewhere around mid-thigh also restrain the legs a bit!
Oh steph, I must confess this made Me very excited! lol But also with a twinge of compassion for you and your sissy tears! *cuddle*
Thank you Ms Rachel. Ms tells me I should be thankful she takes the time to issue correction to her collared maid as this is the only way I can become a better sissy maid. She adds that if I don’t like the hairbrush there is always the cane in her closet. I fall to my knees in worship and feel so privileged to be in the service of such a wise and intelligent Mistress
I didn’t fully appreciate the ‘impact’ of spanking in terms of discipline, stimulation and emasculation until recently. Of course it inflicts a degree of pain which can in and of itself be stimulated for many. But more importantly it is a further surrender of control. For a sissy like me to be commended to lean over, lift my skirt and pull down my panties for a LONG paddling session puts my deep in subspace! There is NO question who is total control when your chastity cage is swinging due to the force of each blow….and your thanking your Mistress for the privilege of being disciplined…..Mmmmmmm
Oh, how i would love to be be discplined by you and Mistress consatnce again…….it was a sublime and emasculating experience!
That was AMAZING, princess! YOU were amazing!
Thank you Ms Rachel….it was an honor to serve and i am proud to have pleased you
Miss Rachel, the spanking by You and Ms Tia was a great way to start or call on Friday night.
I think we all enjoyed it. It sure put me in my place very fast.
Actually, just hearing You and Mistress Tia say hello is all it takes to put me in my place.
It was extremely hot, Michael. I hope to hear that delicious thwacking sound more in the future!
You certainly understand both the physical and mental appeal to administering an OTK spanking to a grown man! I love the way you described every intricate detail…it made my lap itch to have a naughty boy laying across it with an exposed bottom for me to spank!! Another excellent post Ms. Rachel! XO
Thank you, Miss Sierra!
Going over Mom’s lap to be “corrected” brought an overwhelming mix of emotion. You had no control. It was utterly humiliating. It stung like the dickens. But in a weird way you also felt comforted. It does not mean it did not hurt. It did. Yes, you felt like a little boy.
Ms. Rachel, this post was both very exciting and a showcase for your understanding of the male psyche–not to mention showing off your wicked mind when it comes to inflicting punishment. I thoroughly enjoyed reading this, and will be thinking about squeezing a vulnerable naked penis between my thighs while spanking for a very long time. Hawt! 🙂
Oh man. I do love being spanked and it has been such a long time. Looking forward to having more time for some fun in the near future. I do hope you are doing well Ms Rachel?
OLLIE!! I was just thinking about you the other day! Miss you. Maybe you need a spanking for keeping yourself away from Me for so long!
Damn! I would bend over for your
Jesse, I have a feeling you would be open to bending over for Me for *lots* of reasons! lol And I love it!
Especially if you used a strapon 😉
LOL Yeah, that’s what I was thinking. If you need a spanking, you could add the paddle featured in this blog post to your shopping list. 😉
I think I do need a spanking for being away, Miss Rachel. Other things besides.
Oh, I’m sure there’s a list! lol
It certainly demotes you no matter in what context an over the knee spanking is delivered and yet strongly enough it can feel comforting to be on the receiving end of one given, in a highly vulnerable state just having to take it. Personally I do like hand or a nice wooden hairbrushing. In a more straightforward adult sissy context handling and teasing my dolly lolly and marbles would something I’d get off on.
I have an image of you wearing something frilly and femme, ruffled panties pulled down around your thighs and skirt with crinolines pushed up to reveal your pink bottom, ready to be spanked soundly!
Better to give then recive if ask me iam really to get my old fashion punishment spsnking over your lap Miss Rachel i have paddle in my hands do you need any other implemnt to spank my naughty ass with iam sure when your done i be unable sit after 400 spanks from sweet young you
I am a spank virgin .I have been the Spanker but never the Spankee