Hello, Horny Readers! Valentine’s Day has just passed, and it’s brought to mind a cock control question I have for a specific demographic:

• heterosexual natal males
• have a penis worthy of being fucked (at least 7 fat inches)
• don’t necessarily consider themselves submissive
• have a wife or girlfriend who likes to fuck

Got it?

So, the question is, how many of you can say you truly treated your lovely lady to a fully satisfying dick appointment last night?

The reason I ask the specific demographic above is that in My experience, straight males who are overly-proud of their decent-sized cocks and don’t have a well-defined submissive streak are often sexually selfish. That decent cock they’re so proud of often leads them to center their sexual performance on what feels good to it, and not necessarily how their use of it affects their lover.

In short, if they came, it was good sex. And men of all sizes are further notorious for both losing interest in all things sexual and falling asleep as soon as they’ve cum, so for many of you, getting you to do something after you’ve already had your orgasm is like pulling teeth!

I have news for you.

You’re probably not nearly as good a lover as you think you are.

Many women need oral to cum, but a good deep-dicking is irreplaceable!

I hope to god you at least eat her pussy, no matter how long it takes to bring her off. But you would truly have something to brag about if you could tenderize the pussy with a nice big o (or several) at the tip of your tongue, and then treat her to a gusher with your cock!

This is why mastering the art of cock control isn’t just useful for submissive males (who don’t get to cum willy-nilly as a matter of principle).

A “good-deep dicking” doesn’t mean just pounding away like a battering ram. There’s more to being a good fuck than stamina and penis length.

Think of it like conversation. Are you really a good listener? Or have you only trained yourself to wait until the sound of the other person’s voice stops before you can start talking again? Sometimes it’s apparent that you weren’t really paying attention, even if you managed to stay silent.

The same concept that illuminates a good conversationalist, illuminates a good cocksman. True attentiveness.

Cock control allows you to learn concentration, but also to develop finesse.

Make your technique about more than hammering away, reciting baseball stats in your head until you hear her cum. Keep that cock rock hard, but look at her, even if her eyes are closed. You are delivering cock pleasure, so she gets to receive it how ever she wants. Kiss her neck, gently. Or, bite it, if that’s what she prefers. Play with her tits. All the side dishes you’ve taken the time to get to know she likes, how she likes it.

And meanwhile, that rock hard cock is buried in her pussy, not in any hurry to seek after its own pleasure, sometimes still, sometimes pulsing in short little strokes, changing angles, changing depth, stirring and grinding . . . you know! Learn cock control, and you can learn so many other things as well!

Then you can brag about your cock–when you really learn how to use it!

So, consulting with a cock control Mistress, learning cock control, isn’t just for submissive males.

But it might just make you a slave to female pleasure when you see how much more satisfied she is!

xoxo

Miss Rachel, Cock Control Mistress!

1-800-356-6169