Hello, Horny Readers! I’ll jump right in: We femdommes need, whenever possible, to intercede earlier in the lives of men. We need to teach them cock control, and their place in the sexual universe, starting at the age of 21! Yes, a fleet of cougar femdommes!
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I’ve become disheartened by what I’ve heard and read about the sexual function and behavior of a lot of younger men these days. Younger women simply aren’t getting the quality of attention they deserve!
The culprits standing in the way?
- Mindless,compulsive masturbation to porn
- Generally more sedentary lifestyles (video games)
- Manosphere nonsense
And other perils of the modern world.
All I know is, it’s all rendered a lot of men sexually useless to women by the time they hit 30.
I’ve decided that if more of them were assigned a mature, sexy, dominant woman right along with their college matriculation materials, women their own age might have better lovers to choose from.
And W/e all know a woman’s satisfaction is what matters!
I’m not a milf; I don’t have any spawn and don’t want any. But I am past the ingĂ©nue stage. I also have enough experience to have accrued a good deal of wisdom. Wisdom about men and sex, among other things. What’s more, My resolve has only solidified regarding what women deserve in bed.
Why 21?
I don’t think I could take on an 18 year old submissive. They may be men legally, but in My view, they still get a pass for not knowing their way around a woman’s body. Heck, at that age, they barely know their way around their own!
21-plus is the dawn of the “no excuses” era!
So, how could a specifically femdom cougar mold such a young man?
Well, let’s ruminate!
It’s like fishing in a barrel!
Let’s face it, all men are sluts. Selfish sluts if you let them remain so. But no matter their age, women have the hook for turning their preoccupation with their own pleasure against them: beguile them with a sexy, skilled, hungry woman!
The cock is a joystick with which to direct them. While they’re dreaming of where they think they get to put their penis, I’d be making a plan for putting them under My special brand of cock control!
The holidays are a perfect time to begin. He’s home on semester break, confined to the house at least some of the time for get-togethers with loved ones. He might get easily bored! And what does a young guy do when he’s stuck at home and bored? Besides masturbating to porn, I mean.
Well he logs onto Tinder, that’s what!
And there I’ll be, with some cock teasing (but not explicit) pictures, and a profile that says I’ve been curious about younger men (not that that’s true–I’ve been chewing them up and spitting them out since I was 21 Myself).
Once they get in touch, the training can begin immediately.
I imagine most will try to mimic the way they think a self-assured man comes on to a woman: With diminutives and endearments. My reply is the same as it is when some of you older men assume familiarity you aren’t entitled to:
“My name is Miss Rachel. Just “Rachel” if you must. Not “baby” or any other diminutive.”
Some I’ll lose right there. But that’s okay. There are more than enough who are intrigued. Better still, the ones who are just waiting to submit to a femdomme, and just don’t know it yet.
Femdomme Cougar Mode: Activated!
I usually ask a younger man what attracts him to an older woman, knowing what the answer will almost always be: “Older women know what they want.”
“Ah, you like a woman who knows what she wants, do you?” I reply. “Does that mean you take direction well?”
Whether they do or not, they’ll say they do so that they don’t miss out on the opportunity.
And that would give ME the opportunity to call their bluff!
Let’s make something clear: the only reason a younger woman may not know what she wants is that she’s unaware of what’s on the menu. Or more likely, hasn’t yet broken free of the shame patriarchy tries to impose on her about her sexual desires. But acquiescing to the narrative for the time being doesn’t hurt anything.
And once a young man appears to do his best impression of someone who takes direction well, he will be made to actually become one.
How?
First, his cougar femdomme will give him what he thought he came there for: pussy. Enough of you are familiar with My dildo training to have the image in mind: you in light bondage, Me on top. Not to mention My expertise in keeping a submissive man, no matter his age, from cumming without permission.
Tease and delay during fucking notwithstanding, My talented pussy will blow his mind. To get more of it, he’ll have to meet certain expectations.
- Pussy worship.
- Nipple play.
- Erotic massage with a release for Me and sometimes nothing for him.
- Whole rendezvous with nothing for him.
- Masturbation management when W/e’re away from each other, including chastity if he can’t be trusted.
- Field reports once he returns to campus, detailing the results of deploying his new skills
And somewhere along the line, mental conditioning will allow Me to observe the cardinal rule of all relationships involving asymmetrical power dynamics: leave the less powerful person in better condition than you found them.
What does that mean?
I am his Perfect Mistress, not his girlfriend.
Girlfriends are to be found amongst the young women of his own age, not through his cougar femdomme.
He will know that from the start. If I sense that he begins to catch feelings that are disadvantageous for either of U/s, I will have to send him on his way. With aftercare, of course.
Fondness may be involved, and some very real and powerful orgasms for Me for the positive feedback loop. But early on, he will be given to understand that this is not a romantic relationship. I am his erotic mentor, and he is My pupil.
I could never become romantically attached to someone so much younger than I anyway.
Rather, I will initiate him in the ways of goddess worship. What’s more, I will make it clear to him that all women are deserving of it. Including the coeds to whom he will now be privileged to offer his services.
With that will come an understanding of the variety of appearances a pussy and women’s bodies in general, might have, unlike the unrealistic expectations porn can give. Not to mention what a healthy female scent is (you wouldn’t believe the number of young men who seem to expect a pussy to have as neutral a scent as a bowl of plain macaroni).
Not only will he recognize that the scent of the nectar of a clean, healthy woman is desirable, but he will become addicted to it! Likely through protracted facesitting sessions. *giggle*
Of course, I will also impress upon him the importance of safe sex practices and hygiene. This is another area far too many men of all ages seem to neglect in favor of instant gratification.
With that, one more man worth fucking (or who can at least be of service) will be released into the world!
Your Cougar Femdomme
Tell Me, readers: How many disappointing interludes could the women in your past have avoided if you’d had a cougar femdomme in your life early on?
Maybe you have had one. I’d love to hear about the women you have to thank for teaching you your place, and the woman-pleasing skills to go with it, so feel free to share in the comments!
Even if you haven’t ever had the benefit of such an experience in your past, perhaps the idea of it arouses you. I’m more than happy to explore your cougar fantasies in a phone sex roleplay!
Here’s to better lovers for young women, and all women!
Until next time,
Goddess Rachel, Your cougar Femdomme
1-800-356-6169
For years, I have been saying : put 30 yr old women with 18 yr old boys. They are each at their sexual peak…, a-and the women can teach the boys what is what about sex. And since they are both horny ; go, go, go!
I was very lucky to have a gf who was 5 yrs older than me. She was the next one after I lost my virginity. She taught me what she really liked and what her vulva really looked like. We had so much fun. Honestly, she used to try to beat me up with her large tits. Because of her, from then on, I was very relaxed sexually with women.
Excellent share, Evelynn! I’m glad you have happy memories of your girlfriend, and that you feel she stood you in good stead!
“Beat [you] up with her large tits”? LOL I think I saw some porn like that once! It may even be a genre of Femdom kink!
Chime in, readers–do any of you breast fetishists fantasize about being “beaten up” by the massive tits of a buxom woman?
While I am way too old now, to utilize such a service… I did benefit in college from being the submissive pet of an older woman. It was what I would loosely describe as an FLR …. Including…Denial… ultimately Being kept pussy free… and I ended up as a submissive openly and Consenting cuckold.
I can say, without a doubt, that highly molding an d beneficial experience,, set me on a lifelong path as a submissive to women…. Although, even now, still have my occasional failures and still require the guidiance instruction and discipline of firm Mistress …. And Her friends
Sometimes a Femdomme cougar indeed positively influences Her pupil by teaching him alternative ways to please women aside from sexually! You’re a textbook example, prissy! Thank you for your comment!
Mistress Rachel, this Sissy Slut Samantha. As you know, I started my life as a sissy slut in my 40s. The moment my first femdom mistress began to take control, I knew I was a submissive sissy and wanted immediately to play out my slutty desires. Had I been so fortunate as to have had a femdom mistress earlier in life, I really wonder with some amazement where things might have gone for me.
I did have a woman in college that I desperately wanted to relate to sexually. She was an adult student, returning to college after a life change that gave her the freedom to try something new. It was a divorce. She came to me after a freshman class we shared and asked for a minute. She believed she needed help getting back into the habits successful college students maintain, particularly in the subject matter of the class we shared, and she thought I could help her if I was willing. I was flattered, of course, and she was very easy on the eyes. In fact, she was what now passes as a classic MILF – long, curly hair, beautiful dark eyes, a big tits. I agreed to help her. All went well and we became friends. Predictably, she helped me as much as I helped her in areas where my inexperience needed a little coaching. Finally, I admitted to her that I was very inexperienced sexually and asked her to teach me how to be a good lover. She seriously considered it and was very gentle with me, but ultimately told me that as much as she would love to have sex with a younger, vigorous man, she really felt that I needed to learn my way around a woman’s body through my own, gradual and age-appropriate mutual exploration. I strongly disagreed but lost the argument.
We can always wonder on both subjects!
Thanks for sharing, Samantha! I completely understand her take on things, and let’s face it–after a certain age, some women can’t see anyone UNDER a certain age as a viable sex partner. That’s why, when considering how My role as a cougar femdomme would go, My cutoff is 21. I also think it’s important to consider the state of mind of the individual, and their maturity level. Some people mature faster than others. I may advocate for femdomme cougars, but I don’t aspire to be a predator, know what I mean?
All in all, it may have taken until your 40’s, but ultimately you found the erotic mentor you needed at the time you needed her. And from what you’ve told Me (*wink*), things turned out just as she suggested, and you found your way around a woman’s body just fine! *giggle*
Yes Mistress, I did; both women’s bodies and men’s bodies.
Good gurl, Samantha!
Miss Rachel, That’s a nice picture of you at the top of this article. The trim of lace in the bottom left corner has got me wondering: Is that the top of your stockings or are you wearing black lace underpants? I’m not sure!
That’s the top of My stockings, Michael! Thanks for stopping by!
Sounds like a great service to the community Miss Rachel!
I suspect there would be some anal and strap on training added for good measure…
I’m sure Adam could help out with those boys that really step out of line!
Well the main focus is simply to teach younger men how to properly make love to a woman, to give a woman pleasure. But if he discovers some kinks along the way, I’d certainly be prepared to introduce him!
Regardless of age, giving a woman pleasure is my main purpose, lately I rarely ever cum myself but am very satisfied giving her multiple orgasms. I consider myself rather lucky that I always seemed to have subscribed to the “ladies first” mantra and derive pleasure from giving pleasure, if I cum too it is just a bonus.
Good boy, Cocoa Tartan!
A good piece, Miss R. I’ve had thoughts in this subject area, though not along these exact lines. Everyone here can see them by going to a very well-known erotic fiction website, finding the story “Failed the Beta Screen” and reading the comments.
Ooh! I shall check that out posthaste!
Thanks for stopping by, Tea Bag!
Why are you being coy about saying Literotica? 🤔
Um, I thought this site might have a policy of not naming other erotic sites.. and the last thing I want to do is annoy You or Ms Ally.
Anyway I hope You liked my ideas.
Nope, no such policy to My knowledge! W/e might be coy about some things, but that’s not one of them. That’s not an invite to advertise directly competing collectives, mind you. But then again, offering the same type of content isn’t the same as being competition. *wink*
I did indeed like your ideas!
Hi Goddess Rachel❤️ Oh the fun and naughty stories I have come across on the Literotica pages!
I’ve spent so much time there it puts a strain on my eyes…and a strain on what’s in my cage!
I have also done the math on how old MY cougar may have to be…poor old soul!
ROFLMAO! Don’t knock it, little peg! Some of those elderly ladies have used their time acquiring a LOT of skills!
Lest I get accused of ageism let me state I AM a senior citizen!🤣. It would be fun however, to compare and see who wears the sexiest “granny panties”!
Putting the soft g in geriatrics (and NOT putting anything in elsewhere) I remain, yours,
little peg…(hard g!!) Now I’m laughing!🤣
*giggle*
I loved this blog entry Miss Rachel. As always you’re so insightful. I have been taught to only think of pleasing my mistress by my wife – and even by other girlfriends before her. They all saw in me someone who knows the importance of submitting completely to the pleasure of the woman. I think it’s important for you to teach young men this lesson, not only for the women in their lives, but so they understand that their own real pleasure comes only from pleasing your mistress.
Good boy, CuckboyBob!
I don’t recognize your E-mail address or screen name! Have I seen you elsewhere around the Empire? Is this your first visit to My blog?
How long have you been in a FLR?
Thank you for visiting! I hope it won’t be the last time!
Thank you for the complement Miss Rachel. I’ve reading your blogs for a few years and have commented a few times. My mistress\wife only allows me to logon from time to time and to call you only a few times a year when I particularly please her. It was a thrill for me to logon today and see that you called me “good boy.” I love it when my mistress says that to me.
Ohhhh! You’re THAT CuckyboyBob! I know EXACTLY who you are!
You are the goodest of good boys! I love it when your Mistress allows you to call Me, so I can hear of your cheerful cuckold humiliation!