Miss Rachel wants to hear about your jerk off buds! 1-800-356-6169Hello, Horny Readers! Until I entered the kink world, I thought the circle jerk was an urban legend. Males don’t really get together for the sole purpose of mutual masturbation, I thought. Sure, there are times when guys are obligated to share close quarters, like a dorm room, military barracks or prison cell, and circumstances require that they mutually and silently agree, to studiously ignore each other as they take care of their inevitable personal needs.

But guys don’t have actual “jerk off buds”, do they? They don’t actually seek out other guys to jack off with?

And if they do, that means they’re gay or bi, right? At least bi-curious?

This was My thinking. But, as I say, I’ve learned a lot since delving into the kink world. And even more since I became a phone sex femdomme.

What I’ve learned is that jerk off buds are definitely a thing. And that it doesn’t necessarily have anything to do with sexual orientation.

Not necessarily.

Let’s start there.

Can jerk off buds be “straight”?

From My research and experience, most guys who like to jerk off with other guys describe themselves as “mostly straight”.

Take note of the word “mostly”. I think it’s an acknowledgement of the grey area inherent in this Miss Rachel wants to hear about your jerk off buds! 1-800-356-6169practice, and a nod to the idea that sexuality is a spectrum rather than a binary.

For many, jerking off in view of or with the acknowledgement of another guy is the most contact with a cock other than their own that they want. In the age of the Internet, they need never even meet their jerk off buds in person. They avail themselves of platforms like Skype, Snapchat, Kik, and Chaturbate to share the stroking experience with another.

What do they watch or look at?

You may think they look at each other’s cocks, and many do. Meatgazing is definitely part of the practice (see My Femdom Glossary if you’re unfamiliar with the term). But even that’s not necessarily true across the board. Sometimes it’s enough to enjoy kinky chat, either by text, or voice only, about what they’re watching. About what makes them hard, what makes them cum. And although it’s a given that they’re both masturbating during the conversation, it may not even be acknowledged past arranging the assignation.

Some may jerk off to gay or bi porn, but protest that they would never want anything to physically do with a cock in the flesh. Some might only want to see cock in their viewing material if it’s straight porn they’re sharing or viewing.

Tgirls, however, are also very popular among the jerk off buds I’ve surveyed. That makes perfect sense. It’s in keeping with the grey area inherent in the practice. Not that correlation equals causation. It’s just an interesting thing to contemplate.

But mostly, from what I’ve gathered, they’re as likely to share images of natal women and/or straight porn that arouses them as anything else.

What’s the allure of stroking with another guy?

From what I’ve been able to gather, it seems to be an empathetic thing. The male mind has been prepped since the inception of hard core porn to identify with the erection and ejaculation of another man. Granted, some men only watch girl-girl porn because the only cock they want involved in their porn consumption is their own.

But the vast majority of men watch straight porn. The term “money shot” comes from the fact that porn that doesn’t show the male character in a given scene actually ejaculating doesn’t sell as well.

It’s not hard to extrapolate that this conditioning could come to include, for some men, the desire for the validation of their own desires, tastes, and fantasies by sharing them with someone who can relate to how hard it makes them, how good it feels to stroke, and how hard the right visual, aural, and manual stimulus can make them cum. A few of the men I’ve spoken to about it even exchange stroking techniques, taking the empathetic experience to another level.

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Do you have jerk off buds?

I may be pretty well-versed in cocks and cock control, but I don’t pretend to be an expert in all or even most aspects of the male sexual experience and psyche. This post, therefore, can hardly be an exhaustive examination of this type of mutual masturbation. I’m always looking for new takes on any subject. So, you tell Me:

  • Have you ever masturbated in the same room as another man? I mean, when both of you knew you were both masturbating.
  • Have you ever purposely arranged to masturbate with another guy, without ever intending to cross swords or “help each other out” or anything else?
  • What’s the allure for you?
  • Do you identify as straight or “mostly straight”?

Please feel free to weigh in in the comments, or give Me a call if you’d rather share in private!

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Goddess Rachel, An Always Inquiring (and dirty) mind!

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