Hello, Horny Readers! No matter how long I’ve been a phone sex Femdomme, I never stop learning about new corners of the kink world. Believe it or not, a lot of inspiration and information has come My way by My presence on Tumblr (I may have mentioned that Tumblr is one of the places that taught Me about gooning). This is where I started to see the term “pussy free”, and related content. Needless to say, I found it intriguing!
As with many Femdom kinks, it seems to have a few different angles. The way I’ve categorized what I’ve seen so far is according to who decided a boy should be so. In general, the pussy free designation can be bestowed either by a Mistress, by nature, or by the designee themselves.
Let’s define “pussy free” for the record: As I’ve seen it, a pussy free submissive doesn’t fuck vaginas, doesn’t get to lick them, doesn’t even get to look at them, or a combination of two or more of those.
Did Mistress make you pussy free?
If you’re submitting to a Femdomme, and She has decided for one reason or another to include what you can look at and experience sexually in those aspects of your life that She controls, She may have decided that you should be pussy free. Whether it’s because you have a small penis, and She wants to bring home to you the fact that you could never satisfy one through fucking, or because She’s a believer in Female Supremacy, She wants you to know that even looking at a naked vagina is a privilege. And of course, if S/he’s put you in chastity, no matter the size of what’s in the cage, you’re pretty much pussy free by default!
Did circumstances make you pussy free?
Meaning, life itself?
This can be the case for those of you with micropenis or some other shortcoming which has kept you persona non-grata in the eyes of women for most of your adult life. You may want to slide inside of a hot wet vagina, but the sexual universe has somehow decided that this simply isn’t going to happen for you.
Hope springs eternal for those of you in this condition, and you will always try to find an angle that allows you what you covet, but if past is prelude, pussy free is simply likely to be your lot in life.
Did YOU decide?
Maybe you’re a free-range submissive, without a Domme but who knows and feels that women are so far above you that you aren’t worthy of intercourse. You feel the most comfortable, eyes downcast, trembling at Our feet.
Some of you have declared yourselves pussy-free around the same time that you decided you were a sissy. I know there are sissy dykes who still crave the va-jay-jay, but I’ve frequently seen it mentioned among sissies online that along with their budding curves, smoother skin, and slinky wardrobe came a discomfort with all things vaginal, as if part and parcel of their sissyhood is to be the one being penetrated, not doing the penetrating. Unless, of course, you count the desire to think of he/r own hidey-hole for cock or strap-ons as a vagina, right between the cheeks of he/r ass!
Are you pussy free?
Have you used this phrase to describe yourself? I know at least one of you (I’m looking at YOU, princess!) who uses the phrase quite frequently!
Share your stories in the comments, and if you’re in one category but think you belong in another, I’m always here to encourage you in session!
xoxo
Miss Rachel, champion of the pussy free lifestyle!
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Ms. Rachel, isn’t it so much fun to take away a man’s access to pussy FOREVER? I mean, is it really all that of a loss–it just means he won’t be imposing his cock on a woman who could certainly do without it, but it is so much of a power rush to change a man’s life in this way. 🙂
Agreed, Miss Piper!
As you know, it was a long path coming to a gradual realization, with the guidance and control of my Mistress…that as a sissy cuck…..with a VERY tiny dickie (really a ‘clitty’) that i had NO business being in a pussy! I actually belonged in panties and chastity and Limp 4 Life! … i have found my true place permanently “pussy free’! in this way i can begin to make amends for my years of ‘pretending’ to be man. Also, it is my hope that i never disappoint or offend another woman with my useless ‘clitty’…..While it as my Mistress who decided that i remain ‘pussy free;….i have embraced it and i thank her for taking such extreme control!
I hope you enjoyed the name-check, princess! Of course you were at the topmost of My mind when writing this post! You may be the happiest pussy-free sissy I know! <3
My wife keeps me pussy free. Honestly, it’s been 9 years, and before then only once or twice a year. She is older than me, and claims she has no interest in sex, but a couple of neighbors have told me she has 2 lovers. I stay horny and masturbate a lot, but I want herpussy! What can I do?
In a word? Acceptance.
In another word? Divorce.
In a few extra words? Get used to the cuckold lifestyle!
Ms Rachel
From the very start of my service Ms made it very clear that our D/s relationship would include imposition ( by her) of pussy free. I am on occasion ordered to service her pussy with my tongue but as She says that is simply a duty of the maid. A privilege for sure, I know and accept my tiny tool could not possibly satisfy any woman and that is why I am a sissy maid
Thank you for sharing your pussy-free story, maid steph! You’re a good gurl, and I’m glad you know this is what’s best for you!
Ms. Rachel,
Life has made me pussy free forever. Never been anywhere near one. Small pee-pee and a premature ejaculator has done me in. little boys deserve this.
Awwwww, poor tt and his widdle wee wee! *giggle*
Ms Rachel, that was a very helpful post for everyone about the (sorry for the pun!) ins and outs of being “pussy free.” I suppose pretty much everyone wants exposure to va-jay-jay but for some, it’s just a dream.
Agreed, Miss Cindy!
I’m not there yet being married and in the closet but if my wife were to ever agree to Cuck me or if she ever found out about me and left me I believe I would become Pussy free. This would be a result of circumstance (life) and choice. It would be in nature’s best interest.
But hopefully not dildo free, as I imagine you impaling yourself on something big and fat for the rest of your life, even if it’s made of silicone!
Of course I do have access to my own pussy!
Hahahaha! Excellent distinction!
Also while making the feminized sissy pussy free, make sure that he is truly becoming a she by perfecting her ladylike look with her makeup, earrings in her pierced ears, her pantyhose, shaved smooth legs and underarms, wearing a sexy dress or skirt and blouse,learning to walk in high heels etc..
You want your sissy to pass as a beautiful,feminine lady. You want her to easily pass as a woman and a beautiful one at that.
It takes practice for a sissy to be that feminized but well worth i for the sissy.
And also a truly qualified feminized sissy should learn how to please her handsome man while dressed as a beautiful woman, flirting with him, alluring him,serving him, kissing and hugging and careesing with him, pushing up her dress or skirt and have him taking her as his lady in her rear, and taking his throbbing cock in her mouth and giving him a great cocksucking.
Then the sissy is an authentic beautiful feminine, fully feminized ladylike, gay, sexy shemale,
Ive been pussy free since i was 18, i guess it was a mixture of life and myself that decided. Part of my personality is a domme, she likes to torture the physical male body and has kept me pussy free. Shes currently trying to force me to make anal a normal thing for me
Wow! Well, if this is fulfilling for you, who am I to judge?
Life made me pussy free virgin for life. My excuse of a cock is not that small but i can’t get totally hard and i have PE. Plus I’m ugly and timid. That’s my fate. One could say I could pay a sex worker but I don’t want to get a woman in a embarrassing situation like we certainly would get into. So I just accepted that pussy is not for me. I remain a chronic mastubator but I’m also thinking to stay caged but it doesn’t seem very appealing as I don’t have a gf to dom me, use me as slave, cuck me and so on. And I can’t even talk to girls to find one so it’s complicated.
Awww, I feel kind of sad for you! Have you found a way to make the acknowledgement of your shortcomings a turn-on at least? Maybe in your case, the moratorium on pussy should only count for real pussy. I think they make those RealDoll sex dolls just for boys like you–challenged in finding or satisfying a flesh and blood woman, but sort of sweet and deserving of pity rather than punishment?
I find it difficult to talk with women. I’ve never been able to form a relationship with a woman that would put me in a position to enjoy her pussy. My social awkwardness has kept me a virgin for more than half a century. I long to feel a warm, wet pussy wrapped around my dick, but I have no idea how to go about making that happen. I don’t have a small dick, and I’m not a sissy: I’m just an incompetent beta who if fated to remain pussy free for life.
Hello, Tim!
Well good thing for you there’s porn and fleshlights, right? *giggle*
And Femdommes who understand your predicament as well!
I know a fleshlight is no substitute for the slippery, sweet confines of the sacred Yoni, but you could look at it in one of two ways: Hope springs eternal, and perhaps with Our encouragement, you’ll find the courage to get some pussy, some day, somehow. Stranger things have happened, so don’t scoff.
Or, two, get about the business of making peace with the fact that you’re fated to be pussy free for life! That may be unusual, but it’s not unique, and a rich and varied masturbatory life can be good too!