Hello, Horny Readers! Hand pussy, or her pussy? That title could be understood in a number of ways, couldn’t it? Am I asking which you prefer? Am I chastising you according to your taste for erotic humiliation? Playfully mocking you? Proposing a fantasy scenario? Is it a rhetorical question, an accusation, a box to be ticked on My ongoing kink census? Or am I channeling My inner kink stewardess, offering you choices from a menu on the flight to pervy bliss?

I won’t leave you in suspense: since the title and subject matter were inspired by stroking sessions I’ve enjoyed over time, the answer could be any or all of the above! It somewhat depends on where you’re coming from.

But that itself is worthy of some unpacking.

Let’s establish a few facts:

• Some of My playmates prefer to masturbate, a.k.a. fuck hand pussy, over real pussy.
• Others see enslavement to hand pussy as a goal
• Still others come to Me as established pump drones, whether they became so on purpose, or by accident.
• Some have the equipment, appetite, and opportunity to please women, but will always view special time with their hand as a separate and almost equally important relationship

Various flavors of jerk jockey can expect My distance domination demeanor to correspond with their motivations. That’s not to say, however, that I don’t have My own biases and opinions, or that they don’t influence the dynamic.

Perhaps through this post, you’ll both recognize My biases, and see yourself! If and where you’re “triggered” can tell us both a lot, so please do share in the comments!

For, um, for science. *wink*

Sound fun?

Let’s get started with a question I’m sure has already occurred to some of you.

Why would a stroker prefer hand pussy?

Trust Me, I get it. Aside from gay men and those on the asexual spectrum, it’s hard to imagine who could resist the allure of sliding their erect, throbbing, sensitive member into the snug, self-lubricating electric silk of the vagina.

Until, that is, you consider that “prefer” can be a tricky word. It doesn’t always mean that there are unlimited options to begin with.

For example, consider those who can’t please a pussy with their cock. Erectile dysfunction, prejac problems, a small penis . . . all conditions in which a horny male may be unable to penetrate a woman, may lack the requisite stamina, likely to be rejected as a conventional heterosexual sex partner because of their predicament, or all three.

If you think about it, hand pussy makes sense for them. They don’t have to worry about performing, or failing to perform. They don’t have to worry about disappointing anyone or making a fool of themselves. And they don’t have to risk causing offense by presenting themselves as viable lovers when they know good and well they aren’t!

Yet, with the right lube and/or technique, they can still enjoy the pleasure of warm flesh wrapped around their fickle members as they pump away!

These strokers get nothing but encouragement from Me. How mean-spirited or with what degree of barely stifled giggling that encouragement comes depends on their tastes and sensitivities.

And though some of them may never be successful with women, masturbation endurance training, for example, has more applications than the hope of turning a two-pump chump into a good lay.

That said, a preference for hand pussy isn’t necessarily developed out of necessity or by default. Some jerk offs with perfectly serviceable, fuckable cocks still choose their hand.

Let’s talk about them a bit, shall we?

Gooners Galore!

Now, I’m only speaking for Myself, and can only control the cocks that have willingly placed themselves under My jurisdiction. But in My view, and, I argue, according to the laws of the Femdom universe, big, beautiful, dependable cocks attached to heterosexual or lady-leaning bisexual males are, first and foremost, for the pleasure of women.

It’s one thing if you’ve got a great cock, but the woman in your life isn’t interested. It’s another if your profligate hand humping leaves a wanting woman unsatisfied. When a stroker in that scenario prioritizes masturbation over pleasing pussy, I must admit to a bit of vindictiveness toward him.

But for the most part, the gooners in My acquaintance are polyamorous–so libidinous that they can easily sustain fulfilling sexual relationships with both their hand, and the woman in their life, if given the opportunity. In fact, a good masturbation practice can enhance a man’s ability to please a woman.

That said, I realize that women with an appetite for sex that can so absorb the sexual energy of said horny males to the degree that they simply have nothing left for their hand are few and far between. Also, I respect the right of anyone, for whatever reason, to decide that (sexual) relationships aren’t for them, either for a certain period of time, or even permanently. When either of those are the case, I am in full support of gooning with wild abandon!

With the support of a caring and experienced Masturbatrix, of course. *wink*

Speaking of a caring and experienced Masturbatrix . . .

Hand Pussy, Her Pussy, and Cock Control

Remember the “polyamorous” wankers? Part of a triad that includes her pussy, and hand pussy?

Now, this is probably as bald a revelation of bias as you will see in this post, but I think a dynamic that includes a fourth party, in the form of My voice, creativity, and dominant personality, is ideal. A quad, if you will.

But it’s not just My lust for controlling your cock that makes Me say so.

Remember, a woman’s pleasure is the main purpose of a suitable (heterosexual or lady-leaning bi) cock?

Say you’re one of those insatiable horndogs with a partner. You know, she who has sexual needs, but not enough to quench your desire?

The maintenance masturbation you may find yourself called to between sessions of pleasing her pussy can quickly turn to selfish gooning.

As a strict and caring masturbatrix, I understand your situation, wield the authority to keep you accountable, and the filthy mind to provide the stimulation to keep your hand pussy humping, well, hot!

But what if you’re one of those aforementioned strokers with only hand pussy to satisfy, whether by choice or circumstance? 

Hand Pussy for the Pussy-Free

I still maintain that masturbation management of some kind can keep your solo sessions hotter than they might be otherwise. Sure, there’s porn, but variety is the spice of life!

Besides, though there’s lots of porn out there that can trip your trigger, hit you where you live, make you stiff as a board and turn your fist (or fingers, pee wee) into a blur, porn doesn’t really know you like I do, now does it?

Nothing beats personalized gooner encouragement, and many of you know it.

Furthermore, if you’re among the masturbators who simply aren’t meant for penetration of “her pussy”, submitting to My cock control gives you the chance to please a beautiful woman that you wouldn’t otherwise have!

That is, pleasing Me with your submission, desperation, or, if you’re lucky, the power of your ejaculation. As the case may be.

What can I say? Stroking is your kink, and controlling strokers is (one of) Mine!

So, where do you fit in?

Where does your devotion lie? Hand pussy, her pussy, or both? For some of you, the question should be, what are your options?

Are you, Me, and hand pussy parts of a triad? A quad?

If not, should we be?

Where does distance domination fit in for you?

Those are My questions, and I look forward to reading your answers in the comments section below.

Of course, you’re also welcome to pose any questions you have for Me there as well, but the best way to explore your relationship with hand pussy is in session.

I’m happy to advise. *wink*

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