Hello, Horny Readers!
You may be surprised to read this, but in My training regimen, one of the most feminizing articles of clothing or accessories a sissy can be made to wear are hir* shoes. Â That’s right, not just hir panties, not just hir bra, not just hir stockings, but also hir shoes. Â The shoes a Mistress induces a coerced sissy to wear can really help to solidify hir identity as a feminized submissive. Â They can change the way she* thinks of hirself, and certainly the way she carries hirself.
Even if she starts with a lower heel when first learning to walk in them, a heel causes a sissy’s back to sway slightly, showcasing hir ass as it sticks out, as a result. Â Also, feminine heels elongate and feminize the leg of the wearer. Â And when she becomes adept at walking in them rather than the clumsy clumping step of the uninitiated, a good pump in some magical way seems to lend itself to an undulation of the hips. Â A feminine walk transforms sissies in their own minds, and in the view of those who observe them, into something more than simply men in heels.
Coercing hir to seek out, purchase, and wear feminine heels can also lend itself to reinforcing the submissive tendencies inherent in a sissy. Â Let’s face it: Â Even true women suffer for beauty, as anyone who tends to go through their entire day on six inch stilettos will attest. Â When a sissy gives in to such demands on the part of a strict feminization Mistress, faces the public humiliation of having to be fitted for a shoe when the world sees hir as (at lease nominally) male, faces the prying eyes of the binary world as she goes through the checkout line, slips hir feet into feminine footwear, and learns to walk properly in them, she is suffering both for feminization, and for her Mistress.
I used the word “bondage” in My title. Â I guess I don’t mean it in the traditional sense, though the idea of a sissy wearing a pair of stilettos or spike-heeled boots that feature a little padlock to which only Mistress has the key, coercing the sissy to wear them until Mistress decides she can take them off, is very arousing to Me. Â No, the bondage I speak of relates more to binding a sissy to hir feminized identity, and to hir Mistress’ will. Â Shoes lend very much to making the gurl*.
Oh Ms. Rachel,
This idea does drive me crazy – ‘a pair of stilettos or spike-heeled boots that feature a little padlock’.
Being padlock into being You slut would be wonderful torment.
I can only imagine the key hanging around Your neck.
Ah yes, the snap of the little padlock would signify the beginning of our session together, and as long as the shoes were locked on, you would do what ever I asked of you!
Ms. Rachel,
A perfect form of bondage! A fully capable and mobile slut that can’t run away must still obey Mistress completely.
ExACTly, fuckslut!
Being locked in fuckslut mode would only take two little padlocks Mistress Rachel.
It would be that easy for You to make me Your fuckslut.
This is a great posting, Ms Rachel. I am really happy that you wrote about the importance of shoes. Just as what happens on a sissy’s head is important…so is what happens at the other end…her feet. When I read what you wrote about how wearing stilettos pushes the ass out and puts it on display, I could just imagine your sissy adjusting to that new posture, wobbling on her heels a bit, trying desperately to please you.
Awwww, and they do so want to please, don’t they Miss Violet?
I know that you’ve helped many a sissy bring out hir inner gurl!
Ms. Rachel. I;m so glad to see you blogging again. Every time I read one of your blogs I learn more about you and your interests. While I do not see myself as a sissy, for you I would do anything, as if I had a choice. But I do enjoy bondage and the thought of being locked into a pair of stilettos and “showcasing” my ass would make it a very appealing target for you and your paddle.
I love this blog, Ms. Rachel! I agree that hir is a perfect substitution for your blog! So perfect. And of course I agree about the shoes! A girls best friend!The trick is navigating, but with your instructions, they will be strutting their stuff in no time!
Thanks for the vote of confidence, Miss Meredith!
Now if they only made more shoes with tiny padlocks for some of the more recalcitrant sissies!
I am bound to my femininity, I can’t deny the joy it gives to me. I do it to try to be more than a man, to be highly evolved.
Something that helps me walk in my heels is to tucked snugly in my panties!
Being tucked in nice and snug in a pretty pair of panties does put a gurl in the mood, Dena!
Do you tuck it alllll the way back? *wink* Now *that* takes discipline!
Interesting, vanilla has never thought of using the shoes themselves as bondage items, though now that it’s thought of it makes sense. Can be uncomfortable and painful, especially at first while you learn or rather relearn how to walk. And limits mobility. Hmmmm.
Having been taught like a good sissy gurl, vanilla knows how to work those heels and is very often in tall, heels, hir come fuck me pumps. Almost are never allowed nor want to remove them even when getting busy. While taking it doggy, or on hir back with legs up on the guys shoulders, the sight of hir legs smooth and stockinged, usually, ending in the whole thing, painted toenails, toe rings, anklets, high heels, and vanilla just knows she is a dirty little slut who needs to be used and enjoyed. Big part of the life is learning to live in heels.
You sound like you’ve been well-trained, vanilla! Someone really ingrained in your head what your place is and where you belong and how to be the best “hir” you can be! And your reflections about heels, as well as the different vantage points at which you can show them off, were delightful to read! What a good little slut!
Why thank you! vanilla is a good little whore, hir “work” is an out call t gurl gay massage, kind of a call gurl/sissy. Clients expect the full show, not just a pair of slacks and a t shirt, they want and get the full ride, mini skirts, halter tops, heels, stockings, garter belts, frilly panties. The look on a mans face when you peel off a tight, short skirt and show off the stockings and heels…well, it’s worth it. and when vanilla wraps her ankles around his neck and moans as he fucks vanilla…they never last that long before they pop! While vanilla loves long slow fucks, time is money after all!
*giggle* You’re a lot of fun, vanilla! “Full ride” indeed!
I love this blog post so much! My favorite part was your use of pronouns like hir* and she*. The way you explained the use of them in your footnote was really fascinating and intellectually sexy. Thank you for sharing! You’re so neat. 🙂
Awwww, it’s my pretty little Pinky! Thank you for coming to visit my blog! I’m glad you like the pronoun part–makes sense, doesn’t it?
I love the idea of shoe bondage. My Mistress a few years back made me buy a pair of locking ballet boots, and she got great pleasure out of making me lock into those during calls. She knew I couldn’t walk more than a few feet in them before collapsing to the floor in pain. But she wouldn’t let me take them off. If she wanted me to get ice cubes for our play, I’d have to crawl to get them if I wasn’t able to walk.
I’m sure if the subbie is locked into a pair of heels long enough and can’t get at the key, they won’t have any choice but to get good at walking in them.
But not only locking shoes excites me, I have always loved the fantasy of being locked or sewn into a complete outfit of my Mistress’ choosing, with each article of clothing preventing the one under it from being removed, and the top layer locked or sewn together. I guess I just like inescapable bondage mixed with cross-dressing. 🙂
Super post, Miss Rachel!
Wow! Thanks for sharing that, jemmie! All of it sounds so exciting! Boy, those ballet boots sound brutal! But I love the idea of several layers of locking/sewn clothes!
I’ve never been into the idea of wearing high heels because I’m already pretty tall and I don’t like the idea of literally looking down on a Mistress. On the other hand, when You talk about how they make the sissy’s hips sway and how they add to the feminization I felt myself getting my submissive and sissified with each word.