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Submissive Males in Hiding: What’s Stopping You?

submissive malesHello, Horny Readers!  Did you know I can see how many visits I get on this blog?  If you know anything about blogging, I guess that’s no surprise to you (don’t worry–I can’t tell anything else other than the number of unique visits I’ve gotten).  I’ve been so gratified to know that out there in the ether, there are so many horn-dogs (mostly submissive males, I’m guessing) who come here and read My posts.  I have had the pleasure of playing with a few. Probably more than I know, indicated by the times one or another will mention having called Me after reading a certain entry.

And yet, I have also been contacted, in private and outside of sessions, by many who tell Me that reading My blog and other Femdom content they find on the web is the only outlet they’ve been able to bring themselves to engage with regard to their desires. They’ve told Me that until they started reading My blog, they really thought they were alone in their (endearing) perversions, and that even now that they know they aren’t, they still can’t bring themselves to explore further.

Some who have engaged Me for a session have told Me that it took them months, sometimes years, to work up the courage to call.  And then, the surprise and relief that’s clear in their voices once I assure them that not only do I not judge them, but that I am aroused in many cases by their pervy kinks, always surprises Me.

Humiliation slaves aside, do some of you really think I would reinforce the misconception that you are wrong for your fantasies?  I must confess, in addition to surprised, that thought always makes Me a little bit sad.

I understand that many submissive males don’t need direct interaction to be gratified.

The above is not to say that every submissive male who chooses to keep his kinks to himself does so under duress, perceived or otherwise.  Everyone responds differently to fantasy.  Some people simply enjoy interfacing with their kink virtually, which I relate to as someone who prefers books to movies, for example.  When you read, you can tailor every detail exactly as your imagination dictates, without the wiles and whims of another person changing or influencing that.  Even an experienced dream-weaver like Me.

My concern is with those who may desperately wish to avail themselves of My direct input, and are so bogged down by the repressive messages of mainstream society that they may even read My posts furtively.  This post, therefore, is meant to be a public service announcement of sorts.

Submissive males in hiding:  There’s no need to be afraid!

If you’ve read about a particular kink on My blog, chances are excellent that I’ll not only understand you, but that I’ll be into the same things you are!  Beyond that, as long as your fantasies involve consenting adults engaging in safe, sane, and consensual activities (and I realize those terms are somewhat open to interpretation, so ask if you’re not sure), I’ll be thrilled to talk to you!  There’s not much more icing on the cake of talking about things that arouse and amuse Me than knowing a fellow kinkster has taken that first step to free themselves from shame, and moreover that they’ve chosen to do so with Me!

Take off your shame and stay awhile.  *smile*  We’re all friends here!


13 comments to Submissive Males in Hiding: What’s Stopping You?

  • cuckie

    Well, I’m not in hiding, and I have called you. So, can say to anyone considering calling you Ms Rachel, they should get over any issues they might have and call RIGHT AWAY! You are a Goddess and an amazingly skilled Domme….. and WOW!..can you push the right buttons!

  • Ms. Rachel, I love how you so accurately detail the many issues that submissive males in hiding have–and sadly that tthere are so many of them! You truly are doing a public service by providing the environment where submissive males can scrape up the courage to ‘take off their shame’ and admit the truth!
    xo Mistress Audrey

  • Petey cream puff

    I’m not in hiding no more. 3 weeks or so she gave me her purse to buy things for her,I came out of closet with my massuse and told her I like wearing women’s clothes/ankle boots. I told her I want to be myself and not worry about what others say and think. She had me repeat that over and over again. I also told her I bought lotions/mist she uses which is Japanese cherry blossom and she said when I wear that I can smell like her and think of her wearing that. She said if people smell or notice this on me to tell them she put it in me for my massages and thought I would smell girlish and like her. She asked if I like guys and I told her no. She was so supportive of me😂it was also her birthday and I bought her bottle of champagne and bath tub stand. She loved it, gave me hug and lipstick kisses on my cheeks. She invited me over to her place for thanksgiving. With this happening she has her nails dug into me and I’m her cream puff for real. It’s amazing how much power women have over guys and it’s finally happened to me. I have met my match.

    • Rachel

      Yes petey. I’ve noticed your development over time, but I think I also remember how hard it was for you at the beginning. Yours is a story of encouragement to all those submissives in hiding out there!

  • Petey cream puff

    It was hard but I decided I had to do something and I did. Now my massuse & I have great conversations about life’s/what lotions we like. She’s really a special women that I’m glad she’s part of my life. She really opened my eyes about life amonst other things. Once you meet women sports and guy things are way minor and I have no interest doing that. We talk about her interests and girlish things. I’ve yet to say that I want to be in female lead relationship. That what I want. Any ideas how I can go about this?

  • mike

    I always wonder if a dominant woman truly knows how frightened a small and submissive male feels with her. When I have called dominant ladies they all sound so confident and in control. I feel like a weak infant. I know dominant men must not feel this way at all but there is this total fear timidity I feel. I want to admit it out loud and have her understand it. It is okay if it sounds pathetic but I want her to understand the fear.

  • tiny tim

    Hi Ms. Rachel, Hoping to call soon. I am one submissive male in hiding. Was wondering if you believe in female superiority? I do to a certain extent but believe some males belong ruling as Masters with a Dominant mistress. I am a submissive who would like both a Mistress and a Master.

    • Rachel

      Hello, tiny tim! I do believe in Female Superiority, but I don’t believe all males are meant to be submissive, if that makes sense. Depending on how you’d be willing to serve, you would fit right in with My boyfriend Adam and I and Our stable. 🙂 Search back through some of My old posts, looking for the keyword “Adam”, and you’ll have more information by which to see what I mean!

  • It’s so important for us to provide a safe outlet for guys to feel comfortable talking to us about absolutely anything involving consenting adults. Sometimes , when we talk to a caller who has been feeling shame, just showing support and giving them a place to come and talk, helps a lot. I’m glad we can be of service this way!

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