Hello, Horny Readers! Â Did you know I can see how many visits I get on this blog? Â If you know anything about blogging, I guess that’s no surprise to you. That said, don’t worry–I can’t tell anything else other than the number of unique visits (mostly from submissive males, I’d wager) there are.
Anyway, I’ve been so gratified to know that out there in the ether, there are so many horn-dogs who come here and read My posts. Â I’ve had the pleasure of playing with a few. I love it when a caller mentions having one post or another as inspiration for their call.
On the other hand, I’ve also been contacted via E-mail, Skype, or social media, by many who tell Me that reading My blog and other Femdom content they find on the web is the only outlet with which they’ve been able to bring themselves to engage. Moreover, a few have told Me that until they started reading My blog, they really thought they were alone in their (endearing) perversions. Some have said that even now that they know they aren’t, they still can’t bring themselves to explore further.
In addition, I’ve heard more than once from a first time caller that it took them months, sometimes years, to work up the courage to call. The surprise and relief in their voices when I assure them that not only do I not judge them, but that I share their kinks, melts My heart. But it’s also a bit wistful.
Humiliation slaves aside, do some of you really expect to be shamed for your kinks?
Don’t need direct interaction to be gratified?
I don’t mean to suggest that every submissive male who chooses to keep his kinks to himself does so out of shame. Everyone responds differently to fantasy. Some people simply enjoy interfacing with their kink mentally, alone.
I somewhat relate to that. For example, I prefer books to movies. When you read, you can tailor every detail exactly as your imagination dictates, without the wiles and whims of another person changing or influencing what you “see”. Â Even if that other person is an experienced dream-weaver like Me.
My concern is with those who may desperately wish to avail themselves of My direct input, but are so bogged down by the repressive messages of mainstream society that they may even read My posts furtively.
This post, therefore, is meant to be a public service announcement of sorts.
Submissive males in hiding: Â There’s no need to be afraid!
Here’s a little cheat sheet:
If you’ve read about a particular kink on My blog, chances are excellent that I’ll not only understand you, but that I’ll be into the same things you are!
Beyond that, as long as your fantasies involve the safe, sane, and consensual*, I’ll be happy to talk to you!
Sure, it could be that what interests you is safe, sane, and consensual, but it’s just not to My taste. I still don’t want you to feel ashamed for asking!
All I’ll need to do then is direct you to a Mistress who may be more your style! W/e have so many talented ladies here with a range of interests and specialties! There’s bound to be at least one who’s a better fit for you than I am, if it comes to that!
The important thing is, helping you take that first step to free themselves from shame. Whether it’s with Me or someone else.
So, this is your official invitation, shy submissive male: take off your shame and stay awhile. Â *smile* Â We’re all friends here!
xx
Goddess Rachel, Siren for the Submissive Males In Hiding
1-800-356-6169
*I realize those terms are somewhat open to interpretation, so ask if you’re not sure!
Well, I’m not in hiding, and I have called you. So, can say to anyone considering calling you Ms Rachel, they should get over any issues they might have and call RIGHT AWAY! You are a Goddess and an amazingly skilled Domme….. and WOW!..can you push the right buttons!
Thank you for the glowing endorsement, cuckie!
Ms. Rachel, I love how you so accurately detail the many issues that submissive males in hiding have–and sadly that tthere are so many of them! You truly are doing a public service by providing the environment where submissive males can scrape up the courage to ‘take off their shame’ and admit the truth!
xo Mistress Audrey
Thank you, Miss Audrey!
I’m not in hiding no more. 3 weeks or so she gave me her purse to buy things for her,I came out of closet with my massuse and told her I like wearing women’s clothes/ankle boots. I told her I want to be myself and not worry about what others say and think. She had me repeat that over and over again. I also told her I bought lotions/mist she uses which is Japanese cherry blossom and she said when I wear that I can smell like her and think of her wearing that. She said if people smell or notice this on me to tell them she put it in me for my massages and thought I would smell girlish and like her. She asked if I like guys and I told her no. She was so supportive of me????it was also her birthday and I bought her bottle of champagne and bath tub stand. She loved it, gave me hug and lipstick kisses on my cheeks. She invited me over to her place for thanksgiving. With this happening she has her nails dug into me and I’m her cream puff for real. It’s amazing how much power women have over guys and it’s finally happened to me. I have met my match.
Yes petey. I’ve noticed your development over time, but I think I also remember how hard it was for you at the beginning. Yours is a story of encouragement to all those submissives in hiding out there!
It was hard but I decided I had to do something and I did. Now my massuse & I have great conversations about life’s/what lotions we like. She’s really a special women that I’m glad she’s part of my life. She really opened my eyes about life amonst other things. Once you meet women sports and guy things are way minor and I have no interest doing that. We talk about her interests and girlish things. I’ve yet to say that I want to be in female lead relationship. That what I want. Any ideas how I can go about this?
I always wonder if a dominant woman truly knows how frightened a small and submissive male feels with her. When I have called dominant ladies they all sound so confident and in control. I feel like a weak infant. I know dominant men must not feel this way at all but there is this total fear timidity I feel. I want to admit it out loud and have her understand it. It is okay if it sounds pathetic but I want her to understand the fear.
Hi Ms. Rachel, Hoping to call soon. I am one submissive male in hiding. Was wondering if you believe in female superiority? I do to a certain extent but believe some males belong ruling as Masters with a Dominant mistress. I am a submissive who would like both a Mistress and a Master.
Hello, tiny tim! I do believe in Female Superiority, but I don’t believe all males are meant to be submissive, if that makes sense. Depending on how you’d be willing to serve, you would fit right in with My boyfriend Adam and I and Our stable. 🙂 Search back through some of My old posts, looking for the keyword “Adam”, and you’ll have more information by which to see what I mean!
It’s so important for us to provide a safe outlet for guys to feel comfortable talking to us about absolutely anything involving consenting adults. Sometimes , when we talk to a caller who has been feeling shame, just showing support and giving them a place to come and talk, helps a lot. I’m glad we can be of service this way!
Me too! 🙂