“I just love this new necklace he bought me . . . almost as much as the creampie he left in My hole last night!”
Crossdresser Slut in the Sheets!
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Hello, Horny Readers! I’ve noticed something recently about the average crossdresser, and in this first part, I’d like to explore that a little bit. Most excitingly, however, in part 2 I’ll share the story of a crossdresser in My acquaintance who is a perfect example of the phenomenon I’ve observed!
Read along, and see if you recognize yourself, or others!
These days, I meet most crossdressers on social media and in femdom phone sex sessions. Most of the time they provide copious pictures showcasing their style and grooming. And when they do, I notice they tend to have the best taste in feminine fashion.
More and more often though, they also seem to be the absolute sluttiest in their kinks and fantasies!
I mean, they’re really giving the sissies a run for their money!
Why is this noteworthy? Well, I used to think of crossdressers as the least sexually-motivated on the femme kink spectrum. They were on one end, and sissy bimbo cocksluts were on the other. In My mind, a crossdresser firmly identified as a man, but derived non-sexual pleasure from dressing en femme.
Sissy cocksluts have maintained their position, but something seems to have changed among the crossdressers!
So, let’s start with a pertinent (albeit tongue in cheek) question:
What’s gotten into you, crossdresser?
Don’t get Me wrong, I LOVE it!
I’m just curious as to whether or not I’m the only one who’s noticed the change, and if not, what others (especially crossdressers) think is behind it!
Maybe the first part of that old working definition still applies, but from what I’ve seen, the last part doesn’t!
Or maybe it’s the other way around!
Let Me expound.
Lately, it seems that if I see a “cd” in the screen name, there’s going to be some super sluttery to follow!
Their collective love for the best in lingerie for crossdressers, heels, makeup, and wigs is still evident, for the most part. You’ll rarely catch anyone who identifies as a crossdresser contenting themselves with a dime store wig and whatever mismatched collection of feminine articles they can snag from members of their household**.
But from what I’m seeing, crossdressers have been going big, or going home, whether that be in wardrobe and grooming, or the pursuit of cock!
I’m definitely depending on My readers to weigh in, but I do have some suppositions about why this might be, why the definition of “crossdresser” seems to have changed. Or at least become less rigid.
Read along, and see what you think of My . . . thoughts!
Blurred lines
For the wellbeing of all those over whom I may have influence, as well as out of respect for the harrowing journey it can be to go from realizing you were born in the wrong body to becoming the woman within on the outside, I tend to draw firm lines in My kink play between kink and gender identity.
Let Me recap regarding My default positions, for those who haven’t heard this from Me before:
- Sissies are technically male. Submissive males, but male. In some cases not very good at being males, but males just the same. They engage in feminization fantasies, to include altering their grooming and sexual habits, at the behest of their Mistress or out of their own kink desires.
- Crossdressers are male, not necessarily submissive, and dress femme because they enjoy it, whether sexually or non-sexually.
- Transgender women are women who have a medical condition in which the way they appear at birth doesn’t match their gender.
That said, in recent years, I have come to understand that indulging in feminization kinks is often a means by which someone can explore their gender identity.
More importantly, I’ve long understood that sometimes people don’t fit neatly into the boxes W/e might expect them to belong in. Many gurls I’ve met in the kink world identify with more than one of the above!
But there’s one more consideration that might trump all the rest.
Guess what that is?
This is Femdom fantasy!
When it comes to Femdomme phone sex fantasy, you can be whomever you want to be! That’s what fantasy is all about!
Choosing a Mistress compatible with what you have in mind for your valuable time in session is always important, but there doesn’t need to be a detailed psychological assessment done before you can do whatever it is you do that gets you off!
So maybe these days, the gurls who like the term “crossdresser” to describe themselves can be any combination of the above, or not quite described by any of them!
And no matter how they define “crossdresser” for themselves, I especially love to hear from those whose basket of kink contains both crossdressing and cocklust!
The stories have gotten incredibly spicy in recent years!
cdCindy is a good example, and with he/r permission, I will give My impressions of he/r!
So stay tuned for part two!
Meanwhile, tell Me in the comments:
Are you a crossdresser?
If you are, why did you choose “crossdresser” rather than “sissy” or some other femme persona?
Not a crossdresser? Okay, but have you seen what I’ve seen?
If you have, what do you think is behind the change?
As always, thanks for reading! Or listening, if you choose to avail yourself of the audio version of this post below!
Until next time,
Goddess Rachel, Fan of Crossdresser Fashion and Cocklust!
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**This isn’t to disparage sissies who’d really like to look their best and get a thrill out of feminization, but are limited as to choices! Make do with what you have, gurls! Just make sure to warn Me ahead of time that you’re doing the best you can and you want to look pretty!
Miss Rachel,
I love this post and I can’t wait for part 2.
Hugs & kisses,
cdCindy XOXOXOXOX
Hello, Cindy! I didn’t want to contact you until your starring role was featured! But I should have known you’d be lurking in anticipation! *giggle* Thanks for stopping by!
Labels are tricky things…. My definition of a cross dressing might not comport with someone else’s…and maybe more importantly, these are often ‘fluid’ inter-changeable lines…
One might start in one place and end up in another after beginning to wear woman’s clothes.
Technically, cross dressing doesn’t necessarily include being a slut or gay or bisexual.. but it sure could lead to it …And Being a sissy probably means you’d be down to submitting to a man… or a woman, and enjoy some degree of humiliation….but not always.
In fact, there are, as you know, transvestite (yet another label) Dommes…Although most of us are submissive.
Either or both, can mean you’re slutty lol…. But then again.. we just might enjoy the look and feel of women’s clothing.
At any rate …. I think we’re all traveling somewhere on the sexual spectrum….instead of figuring out what to call what I do… I just want to follow where the experiences lead 🙂
* I loved the audio ?
Good share, prissy! I tend to agree with you on all points! You’re pretty wise for a pussy-free sissy beta bitch dildo holster!
Goddess Rachel…what a dilemma! Trying to fit a square peg into a round hole!
Wait, did I just say that?
(I will be darting back to your post while I comment because I am such a hodgepodge of combinations of me I’m getting dizzy)
So…since the time I started rifling through mom’s things as a teen to my senior citizen years of slipping into silk my persona is definitely blurred.
I crossdress but I don’t exactly fit into that slot of “crossdresser”
Early on, natch, the clothing was not my own. But in my youth the was a sexual gratification aspect to it.
In later years, the clothing is mine, however, I abandoned that frenzied fapping that was part of my youthful repertoire!
(My stuff is too nice!).
But I may be a sissy.
I adore those fantastically over the top confections I see, and would love to spend hours in these creations.
An ophthalmologist cannot unblur these lines!
But wait, Goddess Rachel…I am also a panty boi! Mon dieu!
Yes…circumstances presently severely curtail my crossdressing activities…(if in fact, they are)
To that end, I cover MY end with cute little panties all day long.
Perhaps I’m one that does not fit in a box and that’s fine with me.
Oh… I have been in a car, dressed completely in women’s clothing!??
Do I get a pass as a “Crossdresser in a Car”?
Psst…I certainly couldn’t “pass” which made it so much more naughty as I motored through the neighbourhood!
LOL YES, little peg, you get a pass as a crossdresser in a car! Question for you–those early explorations–was it the clothing itself, and how you felt in it, that turned you on, or the fact that you were doing something subversive, do you think?
Lovely share, and thanks for reading and commenting!
Hmmm…interesting question Goddess Rachel. I’ve always felt it was moreso the latter that fueled this fire. It was just so taboo to even imagine. Scurrying about the basement in my mothers panties and blouses?! Who would do such a thing?
Now this was a very long time ago and the only time you would see any crossdressing would be in a comedic setting on television or the movies.
Holy cow I saw it a number of times. Fred Flintstone, Gilligan, Bugs Bunny! Every sitcom does the “Drag” episode eventually.
But to do it for pleasure? So naughty.
Yes, the clothing of choice has always been soft silky ruffled…definitely feminine.
I’ve never ever owned a pair of cotton panties! So the clothing does factor into it of course.
Oh gosh, it looks like the lines are blurred on my answer as well!
When you talked about how all the crossdressing was in comedic roles, I thought to a classic film that’s on My watchlist, but I can’t bring it to mind. I think it’s from the 50’s, and Marylin Monroe is in it, as well as . . . Jack Lemon? I’ll have to double check. But yes, I know what you mean, and can imagine why it might have given you a subversive thrill to wear women’s clothing.
Along with the sensual one, of course. *wink* But I understand that that developed later.
Thank you for sharing!
“Some Like it Hot.”
Classic hilarious flick!
You must see it.
Lemmon Monroe and Tony Curtis
Yes! I found it on My list after I wrote that! I’ll let you know what I think when I get a chance to watch it!
This is Sissy Slut Samantha. I love to wear lingerie but that is that is the only women’s clothing I wear. For me, it is all about being kinky and being a slut. Wearing my lingerie to the porn theater or the glory hole arcade makes it clear to everyone immediately that I am a slut and anxious to serve dominant men in every slutty way. There is also a big submissiveness angle to wearing lingerie, particularly in public places, and as a submissive, I would go completely en femme if that is what the man I am serving wants. But it is all about the kinky sex.
Thanks for sharing this synopsis, Samantha! I think the submissive angle and the focus on being a fuckslut are the two variables that (usually) differentiate between sissies and crossdressers, but even THAT isn’t always true. Not all sissies are submissive these days, and some are more about the feminization angle than about the sex. It’s fascinating to see how kinks and subcultures evolve!