Hello, Horny Readers! This is the conclusion to My series exploring CocoaTartan’s toybox! At least, that is, until I get to enjoy a Lovense sex toy masturbation session with him! Then I’ll be sure to return and tell you how it goes!

This chapter is liable to be a bit longer, since there’s enough left to share about CocoaTartan’s collection that it’ll be necessary. But not enough, I don’t think, to warrant another chapter.

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Are you new to the series, or to My blog? Go back and read parts one and two for the full picture!

In this final chapter, W/e’re going to explore the toys that didn’t score as well in CocoaTartan’s experience.

One selection surprised Me at first, but then made a lot of sense once I absorbed his reasons. One I agreed with right off the bat, since My own experience in orgasm control sessions featuring this toy left Me underwhelmed.

(And although they may have been too polite to say, something tells Me those on whom I used it expected more as well.)

Also, appealing to My taste for symmetry, there are two that are sort of in between. That’s both in CocoaTartan’s experience, and with regard to My own impressions. Truth be told, one of them I haven’t controlled. But My instincts told Me that if I did, it would turn out to be, as Gen Z would call it, “mid“.

I’m going to start with “the top of the bottom” (no, not “topping from the bottom“. That’s always a no-no!). If you’ve been following along and have a good memory of the complete inventory from part 1, no doubt you know which toys will be under discussion. But which ones fall where?

Curious?

Read on!

Sex Toy Masturbation with The Domi 2

It’s got a uniquely alluring shape to it, doesn’t it? Click the pic to take a closer look on the site!

Let’s get straight to the point: CocoaTartan rated the Domi a 3 (to summarize, 1 to 5 being a range between “buyer’s remorse” and “forever fan”) .

Interestingly enough, however, he included it in the list of toys he felt were, while not a bargain, worth the purchase price. But once you read his overall impressions, it will probably make more sense, as it did for Me.

Before his Domi went the way of all things due to water damage, CocoaTartan had the opportunity to pleasure his Lady with it. She enjoyed it quite a bit.

But he also surmised that for men, the vibration likely isn’t going to be strong enough.

True, as any good practitioner of submissive body worship might conclude, he found it mostly worth having, because of the pleasure it provided her.

On the other hand, CocoaTartan does enjoy his solo sex toy masturbation. He’s offered his impressions knowing that (for the most part) My readers do as well His reflections, therefore, take that into consideration.

Let’s face it, I depend on the long distance remote toys I use in My distance domination sessions to have a certain effect on My prey–I mean, playmates. One that doesn’t do much to torment and tease you into a quivering, begging mess isn’t going to be high on My list of  recommendations.

In short, he and I concur.

The only thing the Lovense Domi has over, say, a Hitachi (which CocoaTartan also has, as do I) or a Doxy (which I have, and recommend over and above all other “massaging wands”) is that it can be controlled remotely.

If that’s enough of a feature for you, or you’re looking for something small for light cockteasing or nipple teasing, and not necessarily something that can “take you all the way there”, you might still find it a worthwhile purchase. And granted, if you’ve got a particularly sensitive cock (or clitty), it might be more than enough.

YMMV, concerning sex toy masturbation, and most things in general!

Now then, shall W/e discuss the one whose low score in CocoaTartan’s toybox surprised Me?

Lets!

Made for sex toy masturbation? Nope.

Not in CocoaTartan’s experience, anyway.

I was so excited when the Gush came out! I still look forward to recommending and controlling it. Many of My playmates rank it among their favorite toys.

But CocoaTartan has made Me consider the possibility that for some of you, the concept might turn out to be more appealing than the execution.

I love the way the Gush wraps around your cock. I like the fact that the included band holds it in place, or assures you of control over the amount of “squeeze” (or is supposed to). The thought of the Gush simply buzzing away under My control until you explode in a coerced orgasm is extremely exciting.  I also like to make you stroke for Me with it as it vibrates.

I will note that the Gush is larger than I thought it would be. It probably covers 3/4 of an average sized-cock. So when CocoaTartan told Me that it seemed a bit cumbersome to him, I could understand what he meant. Since he’d rather use his hand than a toy anyway, something that feels clumsy to use isn’t going to tempt him to deviate from preferred routines. Perhaps if it gave him a tighter fit, he might have. But alas, it didn’t.

If you relate to that, either a preference for the organic form of guided masturbation or solo stroking (just your hand, lube optional) rather than a toy, desire an extra-tight grip, or aren’t blessed in terms of endowment, here’s your heads up that you might end up being as unmoved by the Gush experience as CocoaTartan was.

All in all, he rated it a 2, and determined that for him, it wasn’t worth the money.

Next is another that left him just as underwhelmed, according to the scorecard!

The Gemini

This is another Lovense toy that CocoaTartan initially purchased for his partner. She’s the nipple slut in their relationship. But whether it’s because at this point in her nipple slut journey she requires more stimulation to get the same “bang for [her] buck”, or because the Gemini simply doesn’t have the kind of pinch that those who like a little pain with their pleasure will seek, it didn’t do anything for her.

CocoaTartan tried it on himself in the form of frenulum-and-scrotum stimulation, but it was only “nice”. Granted, he still has some room to experiment with it, and perhaps he’ll discover a use for it that will bump it up in the rankings. But at this point, it’s a 2 that he wouldn’t purchase again.

Personally, after some experience controlling it, I feel that it’s pretty big for what it does. I think I was so excited to see a long distance remote toy for nipple play that I didn’t look at it carefully enough before recommending it. As I sometimes do, I let My own fantasies make Me hasty, and, I think, imposed a feature on it that the Gemini doesn’t possess–the ability for Me to control how tight the clamps pinch.

As it is, they only vibrate. That’s, as CocoaTartan put it, nice, but not all that satisfying for My sadistic Mistress side. I figure if I want to simply tease your nipples, there are much more effective ways.

Do any of My readers know of any long-distance remote app controlled nipple toys? Please do share in the comments if you do!

Meanwhile, let’s talk about the only Lovense toy from CocoaTartan’s collection that he rated a 1, that he felt was a complete waste of money, and why I’m inclined to agree with him. *giggle*

The Max

If O/ur complaints haven’t dissuaded you, click the pic to take a look!

Now, playmates and horny readers of Mine, remember that everyone gets to have their own opinion. Don’t be defensive if you are a Max devotee. I’ll actually be happy for you if you have one and love it. I’ll even still control it for you if you like. I just won’t recommend it to any newbies curious about Lovense toys.

Why?

Well, CocoaTartan keeps it short and sweet, and says it best:

no feeling at all, even if there was feeling, too cumbersome.

I mean, I can’t speak directly to how much sensation there is of course, given that I don’t have a cock. But lest you think CocoaTartan’s aforementioned modest endowment could have something to do with the lack of sensation, I’m under the impression that it doesn’t matter. I’ve used the Max in controlling and teasing small cocks, large cocks, and everything in between.

None of them were particularly impressed.

Your long distance sex toy masturbation Mistress can control two settings with the Max–the tightness, and the vibration. There seems to be a very small window where the tightness is enjoyable and yet still loose enough to allow you to fuck it or stroke with it like a fleshlight while it vibrates. Tighter than that, and the consensus has been that the cock quickly goes numb. It can even be uncomfortable.

Further, it seems it’s too easy to go from “too tight” to “not tight enough”. Not tight enough, and the suction sweet spot that makes the fleshlight such a perennial favorite is lost.

No, the Max critique isn’t over yet. *giggle*

Keep reading!

Sex toy masturbation distraction?

I haven’t ever asked a playmate about the rumbling, pneumatic sound the Max  makes when the tightness controls are manipulated. But I have wondered: is it a little distracting to a pleasant erotic stupor when the Max is being used for a more sensual domination session?

(On the other hand, I could see it fitting in with a phone sex space station sexcapades roleplay! But those are pretty rare, and maybe not enough to justify dropping a comparative bundle on a toy!)

Lastly, I have to agree with CocoaTartan about how cumbersome the Max is. Well, speaking for Myself, how cumbersome it appears to be.

Keeping a comfortable hold of the thing doesn’t seem as intuitive as other male strokers. Seems like your hand and arm would get quite a workout! I mean, I realize they do anyway if you’re a chronic masturbator, but isn’t your hand a different story?

All in all, it just seems that if you have to concentrate on wielding something that awkward, I’d think it would be harder to sink into the session. But I will offer that CocoaTartan doesn’t know which version of the Max he has, and I don’t know which version I’ve controlled (I think the original). Keep in mind that Lovense is now on version two, and perhaps it’s more streamlined.

It would be useful to hear from anyone who has experience with both versions!

No matter which version, perhaps if it were, say, wedged in between a mattress and a box spring, and I had you thrust into it, it might redeem itself.

Have any of you used it like that?

Do any of you have a completely different experience of the Max, or rebuttals to CocoaTartan and I’s complaints?

Please do share in the comments!

Now then, guess what, horny readers? W/e made it!

W/e’ve reached the bottom of the toybox!

I hope you found this series as informative as I intended. And more than anything else, I hope it was as fun to read as it was for Me to research and write! Of course, that brings Me to the huge thanks I owe CocoaTartan, for his willingness to share his collection, as well as his thoughts on each toy.

He’s confessed to Me that he has a bit of an exhibitionist streak, so this type of light “exposure” has been titillating for him.

I’m glad of that as well!

Feel free to bookmark this series for future reference, and do get in touch if you’ve got your own selection of Lovense toys you’d like to include in O/ur sessions!

Until next time,

xx

Goddess Rachel, Sex Toy Masturbation Mistress

1-800-356-6169

P.S.: Is it a coincidence? Or did the Femdomme Universe AND Lovense psychically connect with O/ur dissatisfaction with the Max? Did they see My mention of the Handy at the end of part 1? Just today, I got an E-mail from Lovense advertising their newest toy–the Solace! Check out THIS app-controlled stroker! Ideas abound regarding the fun that could be had by yourself, or at My mercy!

Porn gooner watch party, anyone? *wink*

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