Hello, Horny Readers! I’ll let you in on a little secret: Just because you have a big dick, it doesn’t make you an Alpha male. And the fact that you have a small one isn’t all there is to being a beta.
Yes, you’re definitely a beta if you’ve got a small cock. That, or a sissy. But that’s not all that’s missing. Big cock or little cocktail sausage, if you don’t have big dick energy, you can’t be an Alpha.
Now, I know this is a little confusing. Don’t think you can have big dick energy while having a small cock. That’s called overcompensating, and most women can either see right through it, or feel justified in reading you the riot act for false advertising if they buy it until you’re both naked. It’s just that having a large cock isn’t enough.
A large cock on a beta male is just wasted flesh. And no amount of swinging it around can change that.
So, what is big dick energy?
Big dick energy is the confident, un-showy air of the man who’s got nothing to prove, coupled with the magnetism that just draws people to him.
Notice I don’t say he does anything in particular to receive the attention he gets. It just happens. And when it does, he isn’t arrogant about it. He’s gracious and receptive. He has compassion for lesser beings or fans, without once letting them know he thinks of them as such.
A man who’s packing, and has the vibe to go with it, usually has it together in other ways as well, and it’s possible that the former influences the latter. He’s usually maximizing his potential in terms of fitness, profession, hobbies, and yes, sex life. He’s managed to key in on the inspiration his cock provides, and parlayed it, even subconsciously, into a well-rounded existence that others envy and yet whose source they can’t always discern.
How can a man with a big dick fail to have big dick energy?
Some men are embarrassed of their man-meat. Others are, by nature, destined to try to make themselves small whether physically or psychologically no matter what they have between their legs. Still other men are, by nature, submissive, and couldn’t function as a top even if you asked them to do so; I’ve met men who literally couldn’t get hard if expected to take the lead in bed. Not to mention that there are plenty of gay or bisexual total bottoms out there, which is something different than being submissive (power bottom, anyone?). They are often immediately turned off if any attention is paid at all to their cocks.
Some people might argue that just because you don’t have big dick energy, it doesn’t mean you’re a beta male, as in the case of the aforementioned power bottom. I suppose I’d be willing to consider that point. But in My experience, the main point is that a big dick does not an Alpha male make. It’s a big dick, plus big dick energy that does the trick.
And discerning minds can tell the difference!
So, any questions? I know the conclusions I posit here can be confusing.
Are you a big-dicked beta male? Tell U/s about it in the comments!
xoxo
Miss Rachel, conduit of big dick energy!
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I’ve NEVER had an ‘ALPHA’ vibe!
And always had a little clitty too? Or did you start out with an actual cock? I’ve only known you when you had your cute little shrimpie!
OMG….you must be able to read minds!….The first woman i slept with gave me the nickname “Shrimpy”
Well isn’t that a coincidence! You know, I’ve been told I was very “perceptive” in almost creepy ways before!
Few things are Sexier than a Man with Big Dick Energy. You described it perfectly Mistress Rachel. Big Dick Energy is something you’re born with. It’s not taught or learned. You either have it or you don’t. Women and Beta Males attracted to Men have an instinct for sending a man who has Big Dick Energy.
As a Beta Male with a slightly less than average penis I know I never had it and realized that at a young age. I fought it for a while but have learned to embrace it. ☺️
Thank you, Stephanie! I wasn’t sure I would be able to make all the distinctions clear!
It was perfectly clear to me ☺️
xoxo
Wow interesting assessment Ms Rachel, Ive always been a lil clitty beta boy for sure, for a long time I have tried to fight it also, to no avail giggles, !! I still think my position would best now be described as closet bi bottom , for sure, still love playing with females alot, mostly the foreplay thing, love it alot !! I must research the power bottom thing !! nice post ty.
Thank you for stopping by, violet! Let U/s know what you find out about power bottoming relative to yourself, and if you have questions, feel free to ask!
Hmmmm ok Ms Rachel, I think id be more of the passive bottom type for sure !!just saw the meaning of power bottom, kinda interesting !!
I’m 2-3’ 🙁 :0 The only way I can get hard and off is if all of you dress/lipstick kiss my cheeks and keep me as your cream puff girl. Ms Erika has me in panties/bra all the time along with orgasm control as I have to do whatever she wants and asks or I’ll be in chastity. With feminization circuit training program all the time with her/Ms Cind/Ms Olivia/Ms Delia and Ms Erin I’m no longer boyfriend material anymore along with no more being alpha male. Paulina is who I am and become forever as this is forever and real.
So you’re the trifecta of NO big dick energy, Paulina!