Hello, Horny Readers! Have you ever heard the saying, “90 per cent of any endeavor is attitude”? If there’s any truth to this, it holds true for pretty much any aspect of your life, including submission to your Mistress in any sort of Femdom kink training.
How do people change or shape their attitudes, you might wonder? Well, there are many methods. One way is by the gathering of facts, since many misgivings are born of misinformation. Even though I tend to be a strict Mistress, I’m not above reassuring a submissive by providing information about My expectations.
Another is sort of a fake-it-’til-you-make-it approach. For example, did you know that the physical act of smiling, even if you don’t particularly feel joyful, releases happiness chemicals in your brain? It’s true! Look it up!
But self-talk also helps. Reminding yourself over and over of what I expect of you, and why, can alleviate some of the anxiety that comes from taking the next step in exploring various forms of phone sex domination and submission with Me.
In light of the above, many of My submissives benefit from a Mistress Rachel-crafted mantra.
Femdom kink mantras: What are they?
I use the term mantra in it’s casual sense, with no disrespect intended toward the Buddhist tradition. Mantra, when used in its colloquial sense, simply means a word or phrase repeated frequently. When repeated in succession for a period of time, the content of the words can have both conscious and subconscious effects.
In terms of conscious effects, for example, a humiliation slave may experience subspace when they commit to repeating a mantra I’ve crafted for them, especially if there are particular keywords that trigger them. It’s one thing to hear the voice of your Mistress speaking the humiliating words you crave, and for many, it’s quite another level of humiliation to be coerced to speak words along that theme yourself!
In terms of subconscious effects, for example, a sissy who has had trouble with purging may internalize, through repetition, that there is nothing wrong with he/r feminine desires, by telling he/rself that over and over again. Or, consider the reluctant cocksucker (a subject often on My mind and well-represented among My callers). He can come to understand that not only is it okay for him to enjoy sucking cock, but that he should, all through the repetition of some key phrases.
Do My Femdom kink mantras only consist of one phrase?
The mantra is crafted according to the slave in question. Sometimes it can take more than one try to find out what format has the greatest effect for a particular subject. But many submissives know themselves well enough to be able to tell Me if it’s simply one phrase, or a few, repeated over and over that triggers them the most. Some even find that if the phrases rhyme, they have a particularly penetrating effect. effect.
I do feel that a mantra should be somewhat short, no more than ten lines, because it’s most effective when a submissive can memorize it and repeat it without having to read it. Some submissives enjoy the assistance of My voice, and order a sort of bare-bones custom audio, wherein I will practice their mantra with them. I’ll say a word or phrase or line, then pause to leave them room to repeat it after Me. Then I move on to the next line, and so on!
Femdom kink mantras in session and in private!
Of course, those who feel they would benefit from the assistance of My vocal prompting can also avail themselves of that assistance in real time, as part of a session.
So what about you? Have you ever considered adding a mantra to the exploration of your Femdom kink? How has it affected you, if you have? If you’ve never tried one, how does the idea strike you now that I’ve explained what it is?
Please feel free to share your thoughts and questions in the comments section, or of course, get in touch, and W/e can explore the idea further together!
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Miss Rachel, Femdom kink guru!
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P.S.: Want to hear an example of how one of those custom audio mantra recordings might sound? This is a simple one, designed for a cock control slave. Press play below!
The 2 mantras Ms had for me are
Mistress knows best
Mistress is infallible
When performing my chores I repeat these to myself and redouble my efforts to ensure my work meets Her exacting standards because She knows best
So you testify that for you they do have an effect?
Do you think you would work as hard and be as attentive to your Mistress’ exacting standards without those little reminders?
They most certainly do Ms Rachel. Although I would always do my utmost to please my superior I think the mantras reinforce the fact that She is in charge and you are in servitude. If anything is not done to her satisfaction a session with her cane while I repeat the mantras ensures total compliance
Now *that* sounds like a delicious scene, maid steph! The caning while reciting! :-p
Inded Ms Rachel, especially when She invites a Dom friend over to watch. Her own mantra A well caned sissy is a well trained sissy is delivered prior to punishment and after the cane produces a pleasing thwack alongside the sissy sequels and recitals. A usual session will be 20 strokes
Sounds lovely! I’d love to watch that on webcam! lol
I love mantras! I have had to recite them in the past….but primarily through my kink evolution as a slave they have had to be updated….Sometimes i come up with it and others it is given to me….At the moment i think i am in need of a new one! Great post Mistress!
Thanks for reading, princess!
Do you remember what your mantras used to be?
This was one I was to say in a ‘girlie” voice …
I am going to sound the way I look…. like a sissy slut….I’m a cock slut obsessed with big cock……..I love my little clitty because it shows me I am not a real man. I love being feminine…I wish I had a big cock in my sissy mouth right now….I am a sissy slut bitch and I love it!!!!
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LOL! That’s wonderful! I think you’ll have to say that for Me as you crawl around wearing your humbler!
Words have a lot of effect on me. When I told Miss Rachel I purged. She made me repeat after her that puring was not good and then created a sissy mantra for me. I recit them every morning and everytime I get horny. I believe it reinforces my sissyness, makes me more submissive and stops me from having thought about purging. Thank you Miss rachel for the mantra.
Good gurl!
Being a Novice Yogi meditation is a part of my regular routine. Though I’ve never thought about incorporating kink as part of my meditation with a Mantra. Maybe I’ll have to give it a try inspired by your post.
Yes! Let Me know how that turns out, Stephanie!