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Miss Rachel, Femdom kink guru! 1-800-356-6169Hello, Horny Readers! Have you ever heard the saying, “90 per cent of any endeavor is attitude”? If there’s any truth to this, it holds true for pretty much any aspect of your life, including submission to your Mistress in any sort of Femdom kink training.

How do people change or shape their attitudes, you might wonder? Well, there are many methods. One way is by the gathering of facts, since many misgivings are born of misinformation. Even though I tend  to be a strict Mistress, I’m not above reassuring a submissive by providing information about My expectations.

Another is sort of a fake-it-’til-you-make-it approach. For example, did you know that the physical act of smiling, even if you don’t particularly feel joyful, releases happiness chemicals in your brain? It’s true! Look it up!

But self-talk also helps. Reminding yourself over and over of what I expect of you, and why, can alleviate some of the anxiety that comes from taking the next step in exploring various forms of phone sex domination and submission with Me.

In light of the above, many of My submissives benefit from a Mistress Rachel-crafted mantra.

Miss Rachel, Femdom kink guru! 1-800-356-6169

Femdom kink mantras: What are they?

I use the term mantra in it’s casual sense, with no disrespect intended toward the Buddhist tradition. Mantra, when used in its colloquial sense, simply means a word or phrase repeated frequently. When repeated in succession for a period of time, the content of the words can have both conscious and subconscious effects.

In terms of conscious effects, for example, a humiliation slave may experience subspace when they commit to repeating a mantra I’ve crafted for them, especially if there are particular keywords that trigger them. It’s one thing to hear the voice of your Mistress speaking the humiliating words you crave, and for many, it’s quite another level of humiliation to be coerced to speak words along that theme yourself!

In terms of subconscious effects, for example, a sissy who has had trouble with purging may internalize, through repetition, that there is nothing wrong with he/r feminine desires, by telling he/rself that over and over again. Or, consider the reluctant cocksucker (a subject often on My mind and well-represented among My callers). He can come to understand that not only is it okay for him to enjoy sucking cock, but that he should, all through the repetition of some key phrases.

Do My Femdom kink mantras only consist of one phrase?

Miss Rachel, Femdom kink guru! 1-800-356-6169The mantra is crafted according to the slave in question. Sometimes it can take more than one try to find out what format has the greatest effect for a particular subject. But many submissives know themselves well enough to be able to tell Me if it’s simply one phrase, or a few, repeated over and over that triggers them the most. Some even find that if the phrases rhyme, they have a particularly penetrating effect. effect.

I do feel that a mantra should be somewhat short, no more than ten lines, because it’s most effective when a submissive can memorize it and repeat it without having to read it. Some submissives enjoy the assistance of My voice, and order a sort of bare-bones custom audio, wherein I will practice their mantra with them. I’ll say a word or phrase or line, then pause to leave them room to repeat it after Me. Then I move on to the next line, and so on!

Femdom kink mantras in session and in private!

Of course, those who feel they would benefit from the assistance of My vocal prompting can also avail themselves of that assistance in real time, as part of a session.

So what about you? Have you ever considered adding a mantra to the exploration of your Femdom kink? How has it affected you, if you have? If you’ve never tried one, how does the idea strike you now that I’ve explained what it is?

Please feel free to share your thoughts and questions in the comments section, or of course, get in touch, and W/e can explore the idea further together!

xoxo

Miss Rachel, Femdom kink guru!

1-800-356-6169

P.S.:  Want to hear an example of how one of those custom audio mantra recordings might sound? This is a simple one, designed for a cock control slave. Press play below!