Submissive body worship is many a sub’s favorite duty. I’m not surprised. It’s natural for a heterosexual or bisexual male (or a lesbian sissy, for that matter) to take pleasure in worshipping the feminine form. But I need assurance that My body worship sub isn’t making their service about themselves. I want him focused on My pleasure as much as possible.

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Many a playmate assures Me that they’re thinking only of pleasing Me in such moments. But I just can’t be sure this is true.

I’ve decided that keeping a submissive body worship sub locked in chastity is the best way to give Me peace of mind.

I imagine some of you might have questions, and perhaps even objections (not that those are likely to do you much good). But I’ve anticipated those. I’ve given it some thought, and I’m taking the trouble to pre-emptively address them. You’ll see that chastity is the best way to assure you please your Mistress.

Let’s begin.

“I swear My mind is only on My Mistress!”

I’d like to believe that, sweetie. Really I would.

The question is, which version of Her is it?

The Her seated before you with Her pretty toes in your mouth? The very source of the pressure on your face and the sweet musk filling your nostrils?

Or the version of Her that dwells in your misdirected mind?

Perhaps it’s a version of Her that would allow certain things that you know the Mistress under your massaging hands or pressed against your busy tongue would not?

Furthermore, what if that daydream became more compelling than doing what She’s asked in real time? Chastity makes men more obedient, and more attentive to the here and now.

Don’t get Me wrong, I’m sure your intentions are good. Your words and your intentions may even align. But I’ve seen intentions come to naught too many times for your promises to be enough.

In the past, no matter what pains I may have taken in advance to help an unrestrained or pussy-free sub learn to redirect his thoughts in risky moments, one of two outcomes (or sometimes both) have been the result:

• he’s ended up making a mess, or
• I’ve ended up distracted and annoyed.

I’ve come to the conclusion, with the help of My sharp instincts, that he was either obviously distracted by the aforementioned daydream, or he was taking a little bit of the wrong kind of enjoyment in body worship.

I’m sure you’d like more detail about how My experiences and instincts have informed Me, but first, I’ll address a question I bet the above inspired.

“How would you prepare Me to direct My thoughts during submissive body worship?”

First, let Me assure you, dear dear reader and potential pussy eater: I understand: that even if a submissive’s cock is locked in chastity, it doesn’t mean his thoughts are.

Submissive mindfulness training, regular use of spanking implements, the withdrawal of privileges, humiliating assignments . . . all of these can go a long way to helping a submissive identify problematic trains of thought, and nip them in the bud. What’s more, I enjoy it.

Um, helping a submissive to become their best self, I mean.

Those types of obedience training do seem to have some efficacy, which I’ll talk more about later.

Note that I said “some”.

As good as My instincts are, I’m not psychic. So it may be true that I can’t be 100% certain of what a submissive is thinking while rendering service. That also means I can’t know whether or not his thoughts are inappropriate.

But when certain telltale signs present themselves, inappropriate thoughts are almost certainly the cause.

What are those signs?

To put it plainly, faltering technique, and a raging erection.

I can hear your protests now.

“Faltering technique I get. But an erection during submissive body worship is natural!”

True.

But sometimes just the sight of your erection out of the corner of My eye can be a distraction. Furthermore, more than once an unrestrained boner has brushed against some part of My body uninvited.

I’m not sure some of those occasions were accidents.

The point is, it’s best if I can be blissfully unaware of your erection during service, unless I’m in the mood to do some cockteasing.

Anyway, it’s not like I’m suggesting you don’t get an erection at all.

What I’m suggesting is that it be limited to whatever you can manage within the confines of a nice, tight chastity cage!

Now, about “faltering technique”.

Well, take pussy worship, for example. I’ve made a whole audio, available in Our audio store (which you can see if you follow that link) that lays out in explicit detail exactly how I like My pussy licked by an oral servant.

As the audio makes clear, My lick bitch should employ light and fast flicks with the very tip of his tongue until I’m soaking wet. He should also avoid direct stimulation of My clit until then. Usually I’ll give verbal or other signals (like wrapping My legs around his head and humping) that I’m ready for more intensity or a faster pace.

But too often, an oral servant who’s lost his focus will take after My delicate petals like he’s eating a big, greasy cheeseburger. This is before the aforementioned leg wrap, and sometimes in spite of a verbal admonishment to course correct.

Sometimes I’ve even been scratched by his teeth, so mindless and ardent is his desire to paint his face with My nectar! Clearly lost in the sauce.

Or My sauce, whichever you prefer. *wink*

“But chastity will only make Me hornier!”

Ah, yes.

Packed tightly into that tube, a neat little bundle of throbbing desire, My moans of queening pleasure sounding so far away from beneath Me.

Or the sight of My erect nipples, shiny with massage oil as you encircle My breasts with your hands.

The chastity ring functioning like a ball harness to make those testicles feel even more full.

That occasional full-body flush when a moment of particularly desperate arousal sweeps over you.

Delightful.

I know well how a chastity device can ramp up your longing when exposed to the sights and sounds that accompany your service. I imagine it would cause your mental flights of fancy to become even more intrusive.

But when these flights of fancy inspire a physical reaction, My thought is that you are brought up short by the discomfort of the restriction. You should instinctually desire to divert your thoughts and refocus your concentration, if only to limit that pulsing, needy, cramped feeling of being cock-locked.

Do you see how chastity neutralizes both obstacles to My complete satisfaction?

Aww, you’re squirming, aren’t you? It’s so adorable. You might even feel primed for an outburst. Some begging, perhaps.

Go on, let’s hear it.

“Please exploit My unrestrained erection, Mistress!”

I suppose you would prefer cockteasing to chastity, wouldn’t you?

Hmmm. Well, let’s think about it..

It wouldn’t be completely out of the realm of possibility for Me to sort of lazily reach out and stroke it. A little light, grazing handjob or footjob perhaps?

Keep in mind, I would expect the quality of the service to remain the same, no matter how rigid and throbby you might get. Perhaps I could indicate that your technique was suffering by changing My loose grip on your cock to a tight grip on your balls.

Or perhaps I would simply keep that loose grip on your balls. I could tighten or loosen it in response to how well or poorly you were performing. In the case of foot and leg worship, one foot could always be resting on your balls, trapping them between it and the floor. Displeasure could be communicated with a little bit of pressure!

Say, that’s not a bad idea!

Submissive body worship doesn’t have to exclude contact with your genitals I guess. I can see reasons not to lock you in chastity.

On the other hand,

if I want to enjoy a little cockteasing, or desire some non-verbal means of communicating My pleasure or displeasure with what you’re doing, I can do that with you cock-locked just as easily! Maybe even more easily!

Pick your wand: vibrating or violet! Maybe both! Some vibration to communicate pleasure, or a shock to communicate displeasure!

Or better still, the Diamo fits behind or on top of the ring of your device. A bit of chastity torment via Lovense can communicate My needs nicely!

Then again, your moans under such circumstances could certainly add to My pleasure as well, certainly during oral servitude.

And if the Diamo isn’t what you had in mind, a Hush or an Edge held in place by a butt plug harness or a nice tight pair of boxer briefs could serve almost the same purpose!

What’s best is that both of those take much less effort from Me than a handjob or wielding either type of wand!

Ooh! I just thought of something! Perhaps there’s an E-stim setup out there that switches deftly between vibration and a little shock!

And come to think of it, I simply like the idea of keeping you in chastity more! And that’s what’s important, isn’t it?

You know what? Thank you for asking! I don’t think I would have thought of all of those means of chastity torment if you hadn’t!

Well, that settles it then!

Chastity it is!

Share your thoughts about chastity and submissive body worship!

I think I’ve made a pretty solid case, don’t you?

You’re welcome, however, to share any further questions or complaints that may come to mind right in the comments section!

And if you’d like to share in detail how you feel chastity during submissive body worship would affect your particular cock and balls, your level of arousal. which methods of redirection or chastity torment would be particularly helpful for keeping you focused during the service, which varieties of service or parts of My anatomy might particularly pose a challenge, well that is a conversation W/e should have in session.

And don’t worry if you aren’t in chastity when you call. You can certainly practice your orgasm edging while W/e discuss your thoughts!

I’m so glad W/e’ve had this little chat, subbies. I feel all the more confident now, as I’m sure you do, that keeping you cock-locked during submissive body worship is the best insurance against Mistress’ disappointment.

Ta-ta!

xx

Goddess Rachel, Gluttonous keyholder for Submissive Body Worship

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P.S.: I know it’s been quite some time since I’ve shared a nice juicy blog post with you here! As you can imagine, I’ve put much of My energy toward My podcast lately. And even though you can get your fix of My dulcet tones there, I know that for some of you, there’s no substitute for My blog posts.

I’ll do My best to start posting more often!