Hello Horny Readers!
Before I begin, I’d like to stress that what I mean to reflect in this short series is what *I* believe, and what practices *I* like to embrace with regard to physical punishment as a part of FemDom phone sex. Further, I will include what *I* define as pain, which will and does include any physical discomfort intentionally inflicted on a submissive, but does not mean to imply torture as most of us commonly understand it. I feel the need to specify because I realize that dominant women and their submissives who enjoy BDSM play in the flesh and/or as part of the more “classic” scene, are in a position to explore much deeper and perhaps more extreme levels of play than I feel is prudent over the phone. Some methods simply aren’t logistically feasible without leather to flesh contact (*giggle*).
At the same time, I feel that the acronym BDSM is useful in providing the bullet points for the different ways I like to employ pain in my play. In this installment, I intend to talk about how Bondage and Discipline are useful vehicles for the administration of corrective and instructive physical punishment.
As I stated earlier, there are some aspects of classic BDSM play that are better left to face-to-face contact, mostly for safety reasons, but also because there’s some difficulty in a slave binding his limbs securely on his own. There is, however, a fetish I enjoy that fulfills both the feeling of restriction in a slave that produces the desired submissive subspace, and also provides me the thrill of administering physical discomfort. I am speaking, of course, of chastity. I love that it involves the confining of a slave’s cock and balls in the snuggest of chastity cages, so that he can be teased mercilessly without the ability to achieve an erection comfortably. I feel that the discomfort, and not just the confining nature of the cage, are instrumental in chastity play, because it forces a slave to accept this discomfort for his Mistress’ pleasure. It is the ultimate in confinement training in Miss Rachel’s world. Ask any strokeboy who has been cock locked and then teased, and he will tell you that enduring this training is both psychologically and physically uncomfortable.
The cock cage is not the only way to mortify the flesh of a slave, and though chastity is useful for those compulsive cock strokers who have come to Mistress for help, and yet have trouble keeping their hands off of Mistress’ property, some improve most readily with the application of a more direct punishment: CBT. CBT stands for, of course, Cock and Ball Torture, and while I have no personal interest in drawing blood or practicing techniques that have the potential to cause permanent damage to my property (if it’s permanently damaged, what good will it be to me?), ask any of my CBT pain piggies, and they will tell you that the message of chastisement is clear enough with the mild techniques I use.
Some of this can also fall under the category of bondage, as I do feel that forcing the blood flow into an errant cock and balls with the aid of a shoestring and/or cockring to tie them securely heightens the sensitivity of those parts on which punishment is to be inflicted, and then when the ruler, for example, is used to tap teased and edged cum-filled balls with increasing speed and slightly increasing intensity, the physical message imparted is plenty clear enough without foolhardy practices like ball-busting. A boy who needs encouragement to hold back Mistress’ cream no matter how many times he is edged is often able to reassess his stated inability to keep from spilling it after a few firmly administered strokes of her instrument of choice. In cases where a transgression must be paid for, the effect is cumulative, and each smart, stinging little pat builds on the last, until the ache spreads through those balls or that cock completely, and a boy that needs to be punished is begging for forgiveness!
Next: The S/M in Miss Rachel’s BDSM!