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Submissive Males in Hiding: What’s Stopping You?

submissive malesHello, Horny Readers!  Did you know I can see how many visits I get on this blog?  If you know anything about blogging, I guess that’s no surprise to you (don’t worry–I can’t tell anything else other than the number of unique visits I’ve gotten).  I’ve been so gratified to know that out there in the ether, there are so many horn-dogs (mostly submissive males, I’m guessing) who come here and read My posts.  I have had the pleasure of playing with a few. Probably more than I know, indicated by the times one or another will mention having called Me after reading a certain entry.

And yet, I have also been contacted, in private and outside of sessions, by many who tell Me that reading My blog and other Femdom content they find on the web is the only outlet they’ve been able to bring themselves to engage with regard to their desires. They’ve told Me that until they started reading My blog, they really thought they were alone in their (endearing) perversions, and that even now that they know they aren’t, they still can’t bring themselves to explore further.

Some who have engaged Me for a session have told Me that it took them months, sometimes years, to work up the courage to call.  And then, the surprise and relief that’s clear in their voices once I assure them that not only do I not judge them, but that I am aroused in many cases by their pervy kinks, always surprises Me.

Humiliation slaves aside, do some of you really think I would reinforce the misconception that you are wrong for your fantasies?  I must confess, in addition to surprised, that thought always makes Me a little bit sad.

I understand that many submissive males don’t need direct interaction to be gratified.

The above is not to say that every submissive male who chooses to keep his kinks to himself does so under duress, perceived or otherwise.  Everyone responds differently to fantasy.  Some people simply enjoy interfacing with their kink virtually, which I relate to as someone who prefers books to movies, for example.  When you read, you can tailor every detail exactly as your imagination dictates, without the wiles and whims of another person changing or influencing that.  Even an experienced dream-weaver like Me.

My concern is with those who may desperately wish to avail themselves of My direct input, and are so bogged down by the repressive messages of mainstream society that they may even read My posts furtively.  This post, therefore, is meant to be a public service announcement of sorts.

Submissive males in hiding:  There’s no need to be afraid!

If you’ve read about a particular kink on My blog, chances are excellent that I’ll not only understand you, but that I’ll be into the same things you are!  Beyond that, as long as your fantasies involve consenting adults engaging in safe, sane, and consensual activities (and I realize those terms are somewhat open to interpretation, so ask if you’re not sure), I’ll be thrilled to talk to you!  There’s not much more icing on the cake of talking about things that arouse and amuse Me than knowing a fellow kinkster has taken that first step to free themselves from shame, and moreover that they’ve chosen to do so with Me!

Take off your shame and stay awhile.  *smile*  We’re all friends here!


Shrimping: Suck My Toes Like You’d Suck My Clit!

Hello, Horny Readers!  By now you’ve all gotten to know My likes and dislikes, as well as those things about which I tend to be neutral.  You’ve also probably gotten to know that My tastes are not immutable. Sometimes a transient mood, or a piece of inspiration, can make something to which I am . . . → Read More: Shrimping: Suck My Toes Like You’d Suck My Clit!

Anal Slave: Can You Be A Power Bottom Without Topping from the Bottom?

Hello, Horny Readers!  This post was inspired by an exchange I had on Twitter, with an eager fuckslut who was apparently attracted to My fondness for strap-ons. At one point, he tweeted, “Yeah, you’d love to fuck my tight ass, wouldn’t you?” It rubbed Me the wrong way.  It’s not that I don’t . . . → Read More: Anal Slave: Can You Be A Power Bottom Without Topping from the Bottom?

Feminizing Discretely : Tips and Suggestions

Hello, Horny Readers!  Are you a fan of feminization, but you find it hard to hide your tastes from your wife, girlfriend, or roommates?  I’ve been feminizing submissives with LDW for over six years now, and over time I’ve heard this problem iterated quite often.  It’s allowed Me to come up with a few . . . → Read More: Feminizing Discretely : Tips and Suggestions

Orgasm Delay: The Benefits of Waiting to Cum

Hello, Horny Readers!  All of you are likely familiar with tease and denial training, and maybe you’ve heard the term orgasm delay because of it.  In My world of cock control and masturbation management, the two aren’t necessarily the same thing.

Typically, when someone contacts Me for tease and denial training, everything happens in . . . → Read More: Orgasm Delay: The Benefits of Waiting to Cum

Strap On to Stud Cock: Why Some Bottom Boys Graduate to the Real Thing.

Hello, Horny Readers!  More and more men are becoming open to anal play and prostate stimulation. While some will never desire more than a little licky-licky in the context of a blowjob, and others will be too frightened to contemplate more than an itsy-bitsy butt plug, once some discover the pleasure possibilities of their . . . → Read More: Strap On to Stud Cock: Why Some Bottom Boys Graduate to the Real Thing.

Bi-curiousity With The Bros?

Hello, Horny Readers!  I was inspired to write about bi-curiosity today, first because I was reminiscing about some of My favorite porn (which is often of the gay variety) and second, because I read a blog post by Miss Lilly that got My imagination working and My pussy all wet.  I just had to . . . → Read More: Bi-curiousity With The Bros?

Edging for Mistress. A Guest Post by Miss Christine!

I Don’t Just Want You Edging Though….

Time to take a ride my edging pet!

I want you edging all the way – riding the edge in fact! Most strokers, when they’re being teased and get to the edge of orgasm, need to back off and rest, if only for a . . . → Read More: Edging for Mistress. A Guest Post by Miss Christine!

Sissies with Sass: Some Gurls You Can Only Advise!

Hello, Horny Readers!  I’ve ushered many a submissive through fulfillment of their kinky desires, many sissies among them.  When a gurl is first trying to figure out why she enjoys pretty, frilly things, even though s/he probably lives hur public life as a male, I usually explain to hur My take on three . . . → Read More: Sissies with Sass: Some Gurls You Can Only Advise!

Cuckold Husband, Don’t Just Endure the Humiliation. Embrace It!

Hello, Horny Readers!  And a special greeting to you, cuckold husband!

You know, cuckold husband, just because your wife fucks other men, it doesn’t mean the two of you aren’t still in a relationship.  Not only that, but a relationship that still needs to be nurtured.

Sure, every cuckold relationship is different, and sometimes . . . → Read More: Cuckold Husband, Don’t Just Endure the Humiliation. Embrace It!