Hello, Horny Readers! Do you have bi-curious leanings? Are you familiar with the term frottage (or frot, for short)?
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You may not be, if you don’t have fantasies about or experience with male-to-male* sex play. If that’s the case, this blog post may not be of interest to you, and you’re welcome to check back in about ten days when I might publish something more to your liking.
That said, you don’t have to be attracted to men (or at least to cocks) in order to familiarize yourself with the concept.
A humiliation fetish will do! *snicker*
More on that later!
First, check out how the Urban Dictionary describes frot. If you’re still reading, I can only imagine how just picturing two guys rubbing their cocks together makes your mind whirl with the possibilities!
Shocker: I love all things MsM sex play. Especially as it interfaces with Femdom.
Coerced or seduced bi fantasy sessions, cocksucker confessions, the cuckold and bull dynamic, you name it!
I can be inspired by scenarios between men whether a woman is involved or not. I don’t watch much porn, for example, but when I do, it’s usually gay.
That’s where I learned about frot. Now I want to make sure you know about it. That way you can possibly love (or deliciously dread) it, so that you can either try it out in your next gay hookup**, I can use it to exploit your submissive lust in femdom phone sex sessions, or both!
Read on as I discuss some of the ways you can explore this sexy practice, as well as be titillated by the ways I (and some of My subbies) already have!
Fantasy Frot
Some things are best left to fantasy. In fact, some of you super sluts have kink or femdom fantasies that might be, shall W/e say, ill-advised in the flesh!
Exploring your bi-curiosity is definitely not included in that (as long as you’re safe(r), sane, and consensual). That said, I realize many of My bi-curious playmates love the idea of sex play with another man, but likely won’t ever take it further than that.
Sound like you?
Unless you simply need a bit of encouragement (read: coercion), I’m fine with that!
So don’t hesitate to tell Me the idea of frottage turns you on simply out of fear that I might try to get you to follow through!
One of My favorite ways to spend time with you on the phone or Skype or sexytexting, is in weaving an erotic story together, with your hard cock and stimulated imagination the only goal!
Here are some suggestions of things to think about before you call to include frot in O/ur erotic storytelling:
- How did you get into a situation where you’re pressed body to body with another man, rubbing and grinding? Was it incidental? On purpose?
- Lube, or no lube? For stroking while you tell Me about it, yes, but I mean between your two cocks. Do you like the idea of friction from body hair and rougher skin?
- Is there a power differential? A cock size differential (as in, does *ahem* one of you have a small penis? If so, does that factor into how things play out?
- Does frot dovetail well with other kinks you might have? What are they?
- Is there a woman present? If so, what’s her disposition about the goings-on? Is she participating, or just watching?
- Is the woman Me? *wink*
Speaking of Me . . .
Great for Sensual or Strict Humiliation!
I’m fairly versatile in wielding My femdom power. I enjoy a range of kinks and scenes between friendly and hard core.
My fondness for humiliation scenarios, however, whether sensual or strict, is a constant. Right up there with ass play!
And frot has been an occasional potent ingredient!
Tell Me something: If you were My cock-locked submissive, how much chastity torment do you think it would take before you’d willingly rub dicks with another man? What if it was a condition of release? What if I told you it was the only means by which you would be allowed to cum once you were?
And this presupposes that you generally identify as heterosexual.
I tried this with one of My more humiliation-oriented subbies. He begged My boyfriend to rub his big cock against subbie’s more modest one inside of 3 months.
(Don’t worry, there were weekly skin checks and monthly prostate milkings. Granted, My Doxy wand was periodically applied to his cage as well. *devious grin*)
I’m not sure what made him cum harder–the act itself, or the humiliation!
Would that make you cum? How hard? And which aspect do you think would be more responsible for the strength of your orgasm?
Some of you have firsthand experience, if not with frot itself, then certainly with men, don’t you?
Of course you do.
Frottage fun!
I mentioned erotic confessions at the beginning of the post. Well, specifically, cocksucker confessions. But I like to hear about your assignations with men no matter what activities are included!
From what I’ve heard through dispatches from subbies who make cock sluts of themselves in the flesh, things like body contact and kissing usually aren’t included or desired.
But there are at least a few of you who serve a single master, or have regular fuck friends. Regular enough that you could experiment.
I know some of you offer both oral and anal sex for the pleasure of top cock. Some of you even report rather tender, sensual relationships with your tops.
But I’ve never heard of frot taking place!
The closest I’ve come was a recent share by Sissy Slut Samantha, who was swept into the arms of a stud and kissed deeply before more . . . coarse . . . activities took place. At the end, the stud drained a copious load all over her clitty. But I don’t think they did any clitty-to-cock grinding!
So to summarize, I know and receive “the tea” of several of you who enjoy MsM fun, or have. Have any of you included frot and not told Me? If not, would you have liked to?
What do I need to do to get you to bring it up to your sexy dude-sex partner next time?
If you do it, and then you do it, W/e have a standing date for a post frot analysis session!
Marching Orders for the Frot Uninitiated!
What do you think?
Here’s an assignment for all of you for whom frot is a completely new concept: stroke and edge while watching frot porn!
It doesn’t matter if you like sex with men but have never done this, like fantasizing about sex with men but have never heard of this, or are humiliated by the concept, love it, but aren’t sure how it works. There’s porn out there for you to watch.
You are welcome to arrange for a porn gooner watch party, where W/e can watch the frot porn together! I know some of you will do and can be turned on by anything as long as I’m part of it.
I’m happy to whisper sweet nothings in your ear designed to goon you into a state of openness, until rubbing cocks with another man (or the idea of having Me wrap My hands around both for a handjob/frot combo) will seem like the most erotic thing ever!
Yes, yes, I get off on manipulating your sexuality.
But I also want to encourage you to explore!
So explore, okay My tender little cockslut?
And tell Me all about it!
xx
Goddess Rachel, Frot Fetishist
1-800-356-6169
*Note: As W/e all know, some women have cocks. Non-op and Pre-op T-girls can frot, too! With each other, and with men! And some of you might find frot even hotter with a lady!
**You can have gay sex without identifying as gay. That’s where the term MsM comes from. MsM stands for “men who have sex with men”, to be inclusive of the sexy individuals who do just that!
I love this idea… but I’m allowed out of chastity.. I confess however, that I’ve always had a fantasy of a real Man, cumming on, and rubbing it all over my cage!… does that qualify?
You can have any fantasy you want, prissy! But your cage might not provide appropriate pleasure for the deserving big dick. Perhaps it could be taken off, and your little nub used as a masturbation aid? You know, some frenulum stimulation, perhaps? lol
I meant to say… I’m NOT allowed out of chastity
Not even to serve as a rub nub for a horny man?
Well… perhaps that and cleaning could be the okk no Lu exceptions?
Especially if it deepened your beta pussy-free pussy acceptance!
‘Only’’
Although it has not been tested to prove yet *wink*
I do identify as heteroflexible more than bisexual or bicurious because in my fantasies a woman is always present, and yep if it were you *SWOON*
As far as disposition, I would say she is an eager participant which turns her on so much, that turns me on even further.
I’ve never really thought much about an administrator/instructor, but in years past was interested in attending one of the wine mixer soirees that my former Domme would organize with her subbies, alas I never attended, opportunity missed.
Although there is a chance of it happening at the upcoming CFNM party coming up soon, cross your fingers for me.
Ohhh I will be crossing My fingers, alright. And My legs, as My kitty cat will be buzzing with anticipation of hearing the rundown. Even if you don’t end up including frot.
Somehow I feel you will, some day . . . perhaps soon! *wink*
Ah, missed opportunities.
Mistress Rachel, this is Sissy Slut Samantha. The top cock who came all over my clit while kissing me was watching me service another alpha male and heard me tell the first alpha “I am a sissy slut cum dump who loves to suck cock and provide full faggot service to horny men. You can have whatever you want. Please use me!” I have started using this declaration in the porn theaters I visit in compliance with your request.
In this case, it really turned on this second top. He started using me while I was finishing with the first top. As soon as he could, he pulled me close and kissed me with passion and a very wet tongue. I realized he was stroking furiously. Suddenly my clit was covered in cum. As you point out, we did not “frot” but the man to man sex made him very excited and then very happy.
Oh yes, it sounded like a delicious event, indeed! I think, with your recent girl-whore feelings, you would enjoy frot especially!
What do you think?
Yes, I would, especially from a submissive position where a dominant male grinds his big dick into my clit for his pleasure.
You may remember an outing a month or so ago where I got throat-fucked with my head pinned against the back of a large leather couch. When that man finished, another man laid me down on that couch, got on top of me, and frotted me. I was begging him to fuck me, but I know now that what he wanted was frotting. After grinding his cock on my clit for a while he seemed satisfied and moved on. He did not fuck me but I know my place.
Thank you Mistress Rachel.
I did love the recounting of the face fuck, that’s for sure! But I’m shocked I missed the frottage!
Thank you for sharing, as always, Samantha!
Mistress Rachel, this is Sissy Slut Samantha. I have just taken the time to read again this delightful post. And I clicked on each of the embedded links and enjoyed all the supplemental information and stimulation. Because of your post I will now be alert to what the alpha males who use me might really be desiring and, just like sucking their cocks or licking their asses, I will give them fronting with my clit when they want it.
This reply is really to thank you for all the work required to find and place those embedded links. They are really helpful and really stimulating. Reading your post carefully with all the links gave me a full hour of really exciting erotic entertainment. Thank you very much Mistress.
Oh Samantha, I’m so glad to hear that! I do try to select My links carefully! I’m never sure whether or not anyone clicks on them but I do hope they add to the content! Thank you so much for being such a devoted slut, as well as a devoted reader!
Mistress, this is so curious to me but I swear it is true. I went to the porn theater yesterday afternoon. The only man interested in a blow job was REALLY interested and very excited. He was standing and I was on my knees. I was sucking his cock and he pulled me up, wanting me to stand beside him. Then he began stroking my clit and his dick together. He was kissing me and holding me close too. Then, he says, “suck it some more”. I went back to my knees. But in less than 2 minutes he is pulling me back up and frotting me some more! We went through this cycle once more before he came with my clit in his hand. His cum lubricated the frotting until he was done, dressed himself and left.
But for your post, I would not have known what to call that and would not have understood that some alphas really want to “frot”!
The curious thing is that you write about it and suddenly it starts happening to me. Maybe there are more men reading your blog than you think!
Sissy Slut Samantha
Oh My gosh, Samantha! That IS curious! But, the Femdom Universe is also curious, and I’ve heard from other playmates that certain things have occurred in their kink lives that seem to dovetail either with what W/e’ve played with in a session, or something they’ve read on My blog!
I can’t explain it, but I’m glad you got to experience it firsthand, and now know what to call it!
I hope next time it’s with you laying on your back, the stud between your legs, and instead of switching back and forth between your mouth and frot, it’ll be your sissy pussy and frot!
I would love that kind of use, Mistress Rachel. I would put my legs up on his shoulders to give him my sissy cunt and let them down to let him frot on my sissy clit. I would make him happy, for sure!
So, one time I asked a gay friend how they have sex, I embarrassed my self by asking who plays the female. Anyway, he proceeded to describe frotting and claimed that he loved it because, neither was the female. It was intended to have nothing but more and more male energy increasing more and more. So, fast forward to my favorite fantasy by a Mistress and that is basically sissy frotting. two mistresses each with a sissy, and the sissies are dressed up in Lolita style, which is ultimate victorian petticoat froth. And us sissies are made to get up on the bed, dresses up panties down and “frot in the froth” of this ultra girlish sissyness. With lots of Mistress admonitions of what sissies we are, we have to kiss and pet and even declare our love for each other. Often our penises have to touch very gently. Holding back like that is very hot. Well that is my favorite fantasy and I hope you like my phrase : “frot in the froth”.
Evelyn! I LOVE that phrase, first of all! “Frot in the froth!”
Second of all, the scene you described was hilarious, adorable, and would no doubt be incredibly erotically humiliating for you and your fellow sissy!
Thanks for taking the time to read and comment!
Mistress Rachel and Evelyn, what a wonderful sissy scene! Something people who have never been a sissy and have not been “dressed” or made to “dress” might miss is the time it takes to get so frilly and prissy. All during that time the sissy’s eager anticipation and hunger for humiliation builds. In my experience, it is every bit as effective as edging but without touching my sissy clit. By the time your hair, makeup, nails, frilly clothes, and Mary Janes are fully prepared and in place, the sissy is already in another world. I can only imagine that even light touch frotting would drive such a sissy wild.
What a great picture and fantasy! Thanks Evelyn!
Sissy Slut Samantha
Thank You Sissy Slut Samantha,
I’m a star ; both you and Rachel have read my comment ! Oh, one thing I forgot to put in is – we walk around town for a bit, two sissies holding hands and stopping to kiss once in awhile, and two mistress walking a couple of steps ahead of us. I love women’s clothing so much, have you ever seen the Lolita style? If not, please google it, it comes from harajuku area of Tokyo. Omg it’s sissy, but expensive. My favorite 2 brands are : Baby the Stars Shine Bright and Angelic Pretty. And SSS you are so right, all that anticipation, mmm
Okay, for me the Domme is the heart of this one. This is her fantasy. She invited me and a guest for a threesome. My heart gets stuck in my throat when I realize it’s a guy, but her pleasure is my pleasure. We both kiss and adore her and as soon as we are properly excited, she grabs us by the rods and gives a double hand job. She says she is going to keep going until one of us comes. Then, whoever it is has to suck off the other to completion.
The deep truth is I find difficult to admit is I find the frotting kinda hot, moreso with her enthusiasm. The “reward” I find genuinely revolting but hot for the humiliation angle. This is a bad combo as it makes me very likely to pop much too quickly, and I’m quite fearful of what that means.
Well hello there!
Thank you for paying Me a visit!
I love the scenario you outline, and completely understand how something that’s unappealing on its face becomes appealing when viewed or experienced in light of another thing that turns you on!